Have the conversation with the person that's holding you back. The reason most people who are listening right now

are not doing that thing is they're worried about the opinion of somebody

Am so devastated that you actually let your grandma's point of view your mom your dad your sister your aunt

You still let somebody else dictate based on their opinion?

Every action you do and it's your life

The reason I'm super happy is nobody can tell me nothing my wife mom and daughter could walk into my room right now

Tell me on a piece of crap and I would be 100% unfazed that is some gangster emotional structure

If you're not feeling it

Find new friends. I'm being dead serious about this. This one is real big for me

The only way I've seen now that I'm older that you can build confidence is if you surround yourself with people that are optimistic

Start trimming your friend group and start adding to your friend group

predicated on what you want to be. Like it's unbelievable what happened to me

when I got into the Silicon Valley world and started meeting like Mark Zuckerberg

And like F Williams and like Travis like it changed my life

Everybody in this room needs to cut out as much of the noise and time with people that are negative and

spend as much time with people that are positive. The people you spend time with are the ones that dictate your mindset

You can limit your time with your mom. You can limit your time with your best friend

You could tell your girlfriend or husband to go fuck themselves

Yeah, you fucking roll up in your dad your mom your sister and say fuck you. I'm out because you're fucking toxic

I'll see you in six years. You can figure out why the fuck I left. You're accepting to be in that relationship

If you feel motivated by this conversation or you're intrigued by it add one new winner friend

Like, you know what? I mean? I had one new winner friend and cut one loser friend

I felt like even when I give it away and I don't speak to them the chatter of them talk like that means it's like

That means you value their opinions

Yeah. I don't. Yeah

Please let this be the video that drills through your head

That your life is predicated on when you get real quiet and you can't hear another

fucking person's two cents that has nothing to do with you and everything to do with where there are in your life

are you really gonna let those eight or nine people dictate your life because you are so fearful of

judgment from others that at the end of the day when you're 87, you will not give a fuck about