the last weeks of their lives right and she decided to start surveyed band you

know right before they pass and ask that what do you regret most in your life and

what do you wish you can redo anne the answers were very very interesting and i

think it's something that we can all learn from so that's why i've read in

the sorry t right now

so another

one thing that people i would say is that they wish that they had the courage

to live life true to themselves rather than what others expected of them

yeah i love that that's so true

also said

that they wish to be

had worked so hard

wrong again

value

right here in a guy who's who's doing the survey about the majority and then

out that she had not been a while and back but she said that the majority of

that had that answer

the f_b_i_ that look at how people in the case and i'm not surprised by that

answer because it is the argument about that in your next on your whole life we

work it out so

he realizes that like

when i do that

i liked what was this post an endpoint wherever water from a and we lose sight

of the fact that it was towards an end goal and some of what passed yet the bag

also must own and then you get lost in the in the process

at now the reason that i have an disagreed for

with it for my son is that i'm very very lucky and i a do a job that i a lot

and so to me

be able to succeed in that job being able to do it forcefully winning et

cetera of and gillian actually learning and in the sharing with people is great

so i don't think that on my death but i think liked i did too many talk shows

prospective like it's possible that's possible but probably one very rare so

im died so i made it clear but also

if think about it not a personal level and you know for people in general

like when you become obsessed with work as much as you are right where you're

here all day long everyday there are certain aspects of your life that you

kinda miss out on

and i think that that's what people really think about what they're on their

definite and it doesn't matter fear factory worker doesn't matter if you're

doing a career that you absolutely love i think people in the end kind of feel

that way

and here in the united states you work

as hard as you possibly can blood sweat and tears non-stop everyday

they wanna take retirement age away from us and move it up to like seventy five

assassin a to be fair okay but it's right in that direction material right

so

backpackers stuff is really

troubling to me you know i understand and looking so it's time for drinks

lifeless spoke

so i think that this is your kinds of happiness to you should uh...

try to go for one is listen others bus

okay bosom buddies so blesses when you are pass it on paper for merely sitting

at home on a couch watching football eighty minor leaguers there relaxing or

go to a movie going on vacation a separate and then buzz is however you

get your buzzing in my deeply principled one minute by basque on the weekends it

might be news in your job and that you get a certain buzz out of that might be

gambling etcetera

and you need it to the right balance of those who thinks sobel here we go out

for is bosnia burned out by

you need some time to relax a center and these are all in the new ronna that we

actually get to pull that off all you know actually putting enough food on the

table for a family etcetera etcetera

but you know

but the reason we tell you all this is don't lose sight await your and it what

you're supposed to be working towards

because allot of people think

well you know i'll get that out later but in the meanwhile hot

have to do x_ y_ and z_ and some of that is very justified

abbott every single day

you know absolutely

but don't forget that your life is lit lived

in the meanwhile

you know like he's even meanwhile the meanwhile but there's no magic point

where you reach seventy one rs sixty one or whatever it is

uh... i've done

and and now what it is for us so

the birthday

now sixty one seventy one has its own downsize and when you get there you

might not have the things that you want it

life between one and seventy one it's a lot more important delighted to be

seventy one and however long you happen to live

so that part of your life is what you do every day

the ceo to make sure that you can enjoy that whether it's the

having a job that you served that you actually enjoying doing the things he

wants the first thing that they said and others have enough time to relax with

your family friends et-cetera

life lessons brought to you by the onto here's the thing that i thought about

immediately after reading this article and it was published in the guarded by

the way

outside heidi's eleven some people and

does your your conclusion up like seriously i think that we always forget

that were in it dot

out here so that it doesn't often forget that

light by pricey even to the point watch everybody did your whatever meet around

like if i see some pretty flowers right like i've got a so pettit high could be

dead to me

uh... articulate so you might be on one barrel i have that seems to be the

reaction you happy birthday party i think that's a crazy way to look at life

but ok and then my have my dad always do something for eating too much a review

bad stuff right date yet

spirits

yeah but i don't wanna get to the age of like seventy eight month haha read

broccoli for seventy eight straight years

i made it a while

i think this is what i was a so yeah i i mean within balance within the right

balance right before she should be two things that you love because of seeking

to part of life alright f a few other things that were mentioned

i wish i had the courage to express my feelings i feel like you and i don't

really have much of a problem with that hahaha highways and stay in touch with

my friends

uh... and also i wish i were at myself be happier

now but uh... i think that's uh... that i have a problem at all the time

and uh...

and i feel like i have to burn it to some degree

i think maybe a lot of people feel this way hopefully happy no no i i am luton

within my personal life extra money have to defector today

but sometimes again stresses setup especially morgan

in my life before anything right

i don't get to be happier i haven't checked off x_y_ and z_

right uh... and then i realized you

it's okay to beat you're actually on happy

i'm sorry you're actually happened

like if you're actually happy that's a terrific that yeah don't let anybody

talk uh... this by the way people are better and did you try to target like

all i guess you're going to go and do that

not when you have an even on this

anymore and service

apparently so