I want to go over some real basic cat body language

that you probably said, oh he means this.

And it is completely in left field.

The first one, Halloween cat, right?

You've seen it before.

Cat with arched back, tail up in the air, and making themselves

totally puffed up.

And we interpret that as aggression.

In reality what it is, is pretty much the opposite.

It's fear.

The cat will blow up, sort of tough,

in order to make themselves appear bigger, because they're

afraid of something that just happened.

The second one, the old, cat laying on his or her back,

right?

Now, when you see your dog lay on his or her back,

you go in for the tummy rub.

Those of you who have reached in to rub your cat's belly,

you get bit or scratched.

I call this the cat hug, because what they're doing

is exposing the most vulnerable part of themselves,

their midline.

If you are facing a potential predator,

this is that place that you do not want exposed, right?

When a human hugs another human, we

are exposing our midline to that other person.

It is a mutual show of risk-taking and emotional

trust.

Cats do the same thing by showing you that.

That does not mean, come on in for a belly rub.

Now let's talk about the big one, the wagging tail.

Folks are looking at their cat through dog-colored glasses

and are saying, this means my cat is happy.

As a matter of fact, they are usually saying the opposite.

Now, cats will start to get worked up,

start to get a little agitated to static in the environment

by absorbing that energy.

It's almost like it comes in this way,

and then it gets stuck in the tail.

And then, how am I supposed to get this energy out of my body,

you know?

And then, it starts getting worse, right?

And then by the time they are ready to pounce

on you or anybody, or explode with their staticky

frustration, it is like this.

We talked in the past about the miscommunication

that is inherent with cat overstimulation aggression.

So that is, you're sitting there petting the cat-- pet,

pet, pet, pet, pet.

Suddenly, chomp.

You get bit.

The other one we talked about a little bit was play aggression.

Your ankles get attacked, but why?

Because your cat wants to play and is not getting that

play attention.

We've even talked about how your cat can pee on the couch,

for instance.

You're like, why do you hate me?

An insecure cat will pee on something

to mingle their scent with yours, as if to say,

you and me, buddy, we're compadres, right?

So whether it is Halloween cat, whether it is the cat hug

--the belly rub that we go in for, which we

shouldn't-- whether it is the play aggression attack,

the overstimulation aggression attack,

whether it is the wagging tail, these are all ways that we can

take off the dog-colored glasses,

take off the human-colored glasses.

Look at your cat through cat-colored glasses,

their motivations, what their reality is, and you'll

spend a lot less time misconstruing, getting

angry, projecting, doing all those dangerous things

that we tend to do more with cats than dogs

for sure, but pretty much anybody else.

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All right folks, until the next time

we speak, all light, all love, all mojo to you.

Love you.

THEME SONG: You're a bad cat.

I'm not a bad cat.

You're a bad cat.

I'm not a bad cat.

You're a bad cat.

I'm just misunderstood.

Meow.