Anyways, I saidoninstagramthat I'm givingoutadviceandthatyouguyscanaskmewhateveryouwantand I willtrytogiveyoutheadviceyouneed.
So I thinknow I'm justgonnawaittilltheeveninguntilthequestionspileupandyeah, I'm justgonnachoosesomerandomly.
Butbefore I dothat I wouldliketogive a quickshoutouttothesponsoroftoday's video.
Hellotalk.
MostofyouhaveprobablyalreadyheardaboutHellotalk.
It's a languagelearningappwhereyoucanlearnenglish, japanese, chinese, koreanfrenchspanishwhateveryoulike, butnotonlybyquizzesbutalsoyoucanfindlanguagepartners.
Thewayitworksisprettysimple.
Youbasicallyfillinwhichlanguageyournativeinoratleasthighlyproficientinandthenyoualsofeelinwhichlanguageyouwouldliketolearnandthenitobviouslymatchesyouwiththepersonthatspeaks, thelanguagethatyouwanttopractice, which I thinkisalwaysgoodtonotonlystudyfromyourtextbookbutalsotoengageinconversationwithanotherspeakerthatsoundslikesomethingyou'd beinterestedin, definitelyclickthelinkinmydescriptionandyoufindyourselfsomelanguagefriends.
I wouldsaygradesdon't matterasmuchasyouthinkortheydon't matterasmuchasanybodyelsetellsyou.
I thinkespeciallyinhighschool, a lotofteachersdon't realizethatyoudon't justhavetheirsubject, butyoualsohavelikeeightothers.
Sojusttakeiteasy.
Don't likegradesaffectyoutoomuchoryourwellbeingbecauselikeifyougottoseeorifyouget a d you'restillpassingit's fine.
Likeyouyoudon't havetotakeitsoseriously.
Alsolearnhowtocheap.
I feellike I'm actuallygivingoutbadadvicetodaybut I I cheatedsomuchinhighschool.
Like I wasgoodatlanguagesandsomeotherthingsthat I waspassionateaboutbutlikemaths, physics, chemistry, history, geography, I wouldcheatalmostineverysingletestanywayanyway.
Howtodealwithstressandanxiety.
Theway I personallydealwithstressisthroughmeditation, whichifyou'vehearditmanytimesbefore, butyoujustdidn't knowwheretostart.
I reallyrecommendheadspaceonnetflixwhichislike a meditationguide.
It's beautifullydone.
It's likeeightepisodes.
Eachis 20 minutesandattheendofeachepisodethere's like a meditationexercisethattheguythat's narratingitgivesyouguidancethroughitreally, ithelpedme a tonwithmyanxietiesandfears.
Butyeah, I definitelydorecommenditaftermybreakupwithmyex.
I'veneverfeltinloveagain.
It's beenthreeyearsalready.
Um I feelyouatthispoint.
Honestly I wasthinkingthat I don't knowif I'm evergoingtogobacktodatingcurrently.
I'm notevenlookingfor a relationshipum I guesstimewilltellright, it's allrighttobealonefor a while, evenifit's threeyearsorhoweverlongchancesarethatduringthatperiodyouwillgrowintosomeonewhoisreadyforanotherromanticcommitmentorjustreadytofeelandgiveloveagain.
Um, but I justknowthatyouarenotalone, there's plenty, plentypeoplethatfeelthesameway.
I thinkthebiggestissueforpeoplewhenlearninglanguagesandgettingdemotivatedontheirjourneyisthatsomehow, eventhoughtheyreallywanttolearnthelanguage, theystarttakingitas a chore, like, uh, I gottolearnjapanesenow, I haven't studiedfor a longtime.
I shouldprobablydoitnow, but I kindofwanttoplayLeagueofLegendsthough, I doitmyself, I starttakinglanguagelearning, whichismygenuinepassionas a chore, like, no, don't stopdoingthat, stoptakingitassomethingthatyouhavetodo, likeas a, as a washingthedishes, takeitas a hobbybecauseyoureallywanttolearnitright?
Butanyways, guys, I thinkthat's itfortoday's vlogandgivingadvice.
Hopefullysomeoftheadvicethat I gaveouttodayhelpedyouleave a, like, ifyouenjoyedthisvideoandtellmesomethinginthecomments, maybe, youknow, askformoreadvice, and I willthinkaboutmakingthis a recurringtheme.
UmAnyways, thankyou.
Thankyouforwatching.
Uhand I'll I'llseeyousoon.
Like, yo I don't knowhowmuchmore I canendurethisstateofmind.
I waschillingnow, I'm feelinglikemywholedamnworldisfallingapart.