Youcanrecognize a fakefriendbythemoftentakingadvantageofyou.
こちらを自分の都合の良いように扱うことで、その人は真の友人ではないことが分かります。
Doyouhave a friendthatcallsyouonlywhentheyneed a favor?
何かお願いがある時だけ連絡を取ってくる友だちはいませんか?
Youhaven't heardfromthemforover a monthandonedaytheycallandaskifyoucanhelpthemmove. Thisis a clearsignyouhave a fakefriendthatdoesn't wantyourcompany. Heorshejustwantstouseyou.
Everyachievementyoumakeis a challengetothem, not a successtheyshouldcelebratewithyou.
こちらの成功は向こうにとっては挑戦すべき課題で、一緒にゴール達成をお祝いする姿勢にはなりません。
Ifyoutalkaboutyourraise, theywilltrytotopthatandtalkabouthowtheyareearningmuchmoremoneythanyoufromthestart; ifyoubuy a newphone, theywillbuy a betterone.
Youwillnothearthemsaythingslike "Let's gowatchthatcomedymoviebecause I rememberyousaidyoulikecomedy." Or "I madethesecookieswithoutpeanutsbecause I rememberyoutoldmeyouwereallergic."