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  • P1: Oh my god! P2: I don't know! I don't know!

  • Julian: Ah, the single life. Gotta love it, right? I just really love it a lot.

  • Just so much, freedom. Anyway, 44% of Americans over 18 lead single lives. That's a pretty big

  • chunk and we wanted to see how people felt about singledom. We brought in a selection

  • of single people and we asked them a few questions. If you could wake up tomorrow and be single

  • and in a relationship would you be single or in a relationship?

  • P1: In a relationship. P3: I'd be in a relationship.

  • P4: In a relationship. P2: I'd like to have someone special.

  • P5: In a relationship. P6: In a relationship, right away. When you're

  • with someone like I don't know just being with them, holding them, it's nice!

  • P7: In a relationship no doubt! Humans aren't meant to be alone.

  • Julian: This really surprised us. Not one person wanted to be single over being in a

  • relationship. So just to be sure we even surveyed forty-five additional participants outside

  • the show and all forty-five said they'd prefer to be in a relationship.

  • What are the qualities you look for in a partner? P5: Companionship.

  • P6: Honest, doesn't cheat. The basics. P4: Friendly but aggressive.

  • P2: Someone who I can just grab pancakes at 2 AM at IHOP just because we both feel like it.

  • Julian: What do you think it is that other people are looking for in a partner.

  • P3: One night stands. P5: Money, sex.

  • P7: Certain financial status. A lot of people out here looking for arm candy.

  • P2: Someone who they can showcase.

  • P4: That's why I just want to get married so I don't have to worry about it anymore,

  • just be done with it! It's like I'm married, I have kids, I can't date you!

  • Julian: We also learned that we're all looking for the same great qualities but we think

  • we're one of the only ones who is! Now unless we were lucky enough that every participant

  • we had was the saint of their social circle, something just doesn't add up!

  • What would you say if I told you that all the people we asked said the same thing. I

  • am looking for all these great qualities in a person and all of them also said that they

  • believe everybody else is looking for something more superficial arm candy or money.

  • P2: I guess that we put ourselves up on a pedestal and think we're so noble!

  • P3: I hope that not everybody feels that the world is out to get them.

  • Julian: Are all those qualities packed into any single person you know now.

  • P5: Dating-wise, no. P1: Mhm!

  • P2: Yeah! P6: Yeah.

  • P4: Yeah. P2: I can be myself around him and be comfortable.

  • P1: Like I'm really trying with someone right now.

  • P6: She's kind, she's sometimes too kind to people. But she doesn't judge people.

  • P4: The guy that I actually just met and he's everything. But I'm actually scared to go

  • forth with the whole process because I don't feel he feels the same way.

  • P1: Would you be willing to give him a call and let him know that he has these qualities?

  • P4: Um. Julian: I promise nothing bad will happen.

  • P1: [laughs] P2: I don't know, wait that's weird!

  • Julian: Well we're not asking you to ask him out or anything like that. Just let him know

  • he has these qualities! P6: It's kind of weird because her younger

  • brother used to be my best friend. That's like breaking bro code or something.

  • Julian: It's not, it's fine. P1: Okay!

  • P2: So I'll just tell him that he has good qualities.

  • Julian: Yes! P3: I don't know if you saw that girl in the

  • lobby but she seems like a genuinely nice person, which is good! I like that! I like

  • nice people. Julian: Did you get here number?

  • So she's here! P3: Yeah! She's in the lobby.

  • P6: I'm nervous man. [phone]: Hello?

  • P6: Hey Brenda! [phone]: Hey!

  • P1: Hi Sam, it's Mel! I hope that you are doing well.

  • P4: I'm shaking. P3: I just wanted to tell you that I think

  • you're really nice. P2: Thanks!

  • P3: And you have a good energy and that's awesome!

  • P2: Thank you! I feel that you have a good energy too!

  • P1: I think that you're so intelligent and caring and affectionate.

  • P3: Now that we're here, I'd like to run by you some opportunities. We can play checkers

  • on Friday, chess on Saturday, or water polo on Sunday. I mean it's totally up to you!

  • P2: Oh hey Michael, this is Sandy. Yeah you know just happy Saturday. I just want to tell

  • you that you are a fantastic person and you're really funny and I miss that because you're

  • not in LA anymore. And I... P4: When we first met, I did not expect to

  • feel the way I've felt. I thought we were just going to be friends. I actually see something

  • in you that I haven't seen in anybody else. P6: They told me to describe someone that

  • had the same qualities that I would go out for like nice and everything and actually

  • I called you! [phone]: You're calling me?

  • P6: Yeah! P2: I still remember that time that we had

  • cheesecakes super super late and you, yeah and you just told me to go for my dreams and

  • that meant a lot to me! Oh gosh, okay! P6: I'm alright.

  • P4: You know I know you have some type of attraction towards me but I feel a little

  • bit more than just attracted to your body and all that stuff. I love how you're so honest

  • and so sweet and genuine. P2: This is the longest voicemail you'll ever

  • receive, you rock because you cook and you like little kids and you like fro-yo and those

  • are the three main tenets in life dude. P4: It's not me trying to be sentimental,

  • I mean how do you feel after you know, everything. I like that answer.

  • P1: And I just am really appreciating the time we've been spending together, okay bye!

  • P4: Bye. Julian: How are you feeling now?

  • P2: I feel good! P4: That was great!

  • P2: That was very freeing! Julian: How do you feel about taking a risk

  • like that? P2: Being in the mind set of taking risks

  • is always good. So I am all for them! But I usually don't do them in public.

  • P3: I don't mind being bold! I think risk is necessary for growth.

  • P4: Oh actually, I love taking risk. I love a challenge. That was a really big challenge

  • for me. P6: Took a risk by being here man. My friend

  • she's like just sign up! You never know where you end up, may end up on a show, or just

  • meeting someone you really like! P4: Now that I did that, I feel ten times

  • better! P2: The thing is I don't need to date him

  • now or anything but at least he knows that I feel this way about him!

  • P4: Either he likes me or he doesn't. If he likes me then if he doesn't work out then

  • I'm going to do that to the next guy! P1: I'm glad I did it now because I did it!

  • P6: Whatever you think is too much risk just take a little more.

  • Julian: So go out and take a chance on somebody. We're a lot more alike than we think. Like

  • happiness, everyone wants love but a lot of the ideas we have about how to get it, give

  • it, sustain it, are outdated, conflicting, and kind of vague. So we figured how about

  • we have a practical conversation about it and make it a little less confusing.

  • I'm Julian, and this has been the Science of Love!

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P1: Oh my god! P2: I don't know! I don't know!

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シングルライフ|恋愛の科学 (The Single Life | The Science of Love)

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    林利憲 に公開 2021 年 01 月 14 日
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