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  • 5 Tips To Improve Your Public Speaking - How To Speak Professionally - Speech Speaker Tips

  • Hi! I'm Antonio Centeno, the founder of Real Men Real Style. Today, I'm going to be giving

  • you five tips on how to improve the way you speak.

  • If you haven't already, please subscribe to my YouTube channel. By doing that, these videos

  • will come right to you. In addition, if you like this, if you find it useful, I would

  • appreciate it if you would like it down below. And last but not least, if you want to learn

  • more about men's style, not so much speaking but I focus mostly on style, I've got a free

  • e-book down there, 47 pages. It's great.

  • In addition, a premium e-book, 600 pages, 400 images, 14 hours of audio. I really find

  • that when someone purchases the e-book, they take action. Guys, if anything, watching my

  • videos, it's great reading my articles even better, but you really need to take action

  • on this stuff if you want to improve your life.

  • Having said that, this is a response to a question I saw on the comments awhile back.

  • Someone was asking me, "How do you speak the way you do? You come across as really natural.

  • It seems like you were born that way." I really want to throw that fallacy right out the window.

  • Guys, I practice a lot. If you go back to my earlier videos, I don't think they were

  • that great. I was talking really slow and I've since, I think, become much better in

  • front of the camera, but even before that, for years, I have been trying to improve the

  • way I speak in front of groups and audiences because I feel it's really important.

  • I think in high school, I remember reading something about how public speaking is the

  • number one fear that people have. I was an introvert. I was really quiet in high school

  • and it was hard for me to get up in front of a group and talk. Presentations were not

  • my strong point, but I realized that if I was going to do well with what I wanted to

  • do with my life, I need it to be able to get up in front of people and talk.

  • I've frozen up in front of groups. It's happened in times. I really wish I could go back and

  • help myself, but these are five tips I have found that have really helped me improve the

  • way I present and I speak in front of others.

  • 1. Practice

  • There's a reason why I'm putting out so many videos. This is because I've really got big

  • expectations for myself and where I want to take my channel, my business, and a lot of

  • these videos I do, I look at it, is practicing for where I'm going. I know we've put out

  • well over 200 videos, but what you haven't seen are the hundreds and hundreds of videos

  • that haven't made it simply because I didn’t feel they were good enough. Let's just say

  • I practice a lot and if you don't practice, if you think you can wing it, you're really

  • setting yourself up for failure.

  • There was a guy named Pat Flynn. I follow him over at Smart Passive Income and I know

  • he spoke recently at Blog World. He went through the entire process of how he practiced again

  • and again, sometimes in front of his -- I think he's got a two-year-old son now; that

  • was the only audience. But when he got up there and he gave his speech at Blog World,

  • guess what? All of his presentation props failed. They couldn't get it going, but Pat

  • just looked forward and he kept going because he knew his presentation by heart. When you

  • practice that much and that doesn’t even bother you, people are just going to be, "Wow!"

  • so practice, practice, practice.

  • 2. Listen

  • Now, there's this great saying, "We've got one mouth, two ears, so you should listen

  • twice as much as you should speak." Believe it or not, guys, I read every single comment

  • that comes through and I do pay attention to what you all are saying. I've been trying

  • to adjust. I know you guys are screaming for visuals, but because I don't have a full-time

  • audio tech person, it's still a ways off before I have visuals in all my videos, but I am

  • listening and I'm trying to adjust. I'm trying to make things better.

  • Listen to your audience. I know it may be hard when you don't have an audience at all

  • and that audience may simply be your brother. It may be your kids. It may be your parents,

  • but listen to them and adjust a bit. Now, listen with a great enough soul after you

  • start doing it a while because you're going to find that not everyone's opinion is right,

  • but definitely be listening to people because at the end of the day, those are the people

  • you're trying to reach.

  • 3. Record and watch

  • This is kind of related to listening in practice, but if you've got a video camera and most

  • of you guys have one on your phone, if somehow you can record yourself, record it and watch.

  • It's going to be painful because you're going to see just how good or how bad you really

  • are, most likely bad because we are our worst critics, but if you can get it up to a point

  • where you feel pretty good about the presentation, you really want to do this because you're

  • going to start seeing that you use probably a lot of crutch words, and crutch words are

  • "umm", "like", "or". I use crutch words. I think my favorites one is "at the end of the

  • day", if you haven't heard me say that probably a hundred times or more in my videos, so record

  • and watch.

  • 4. Be honest with yourself

  • Don't try to live in this dream thinking that, "I'm the best." Yes, we all think it. In fact,

  • what are the stats out there, that 80% to 90% of us think we're above average and if

  • you think about that, that just doesn’t work out. Only 49% of us can be above average

  • and most of us think we're really above average.

  • Be honest with yourself, but realize that if you're honest with yourself, if you're

  • willing to go that extra mile, there's no traffic on the extra mile. Just look around.

  • How many people are going through the extra effort to put out content in your profession?

  • How many people are getting up at 4:00 in the morning, work until 10:00 or 11:00 at

  • night, really putting out and becoming a leader in the industry? So remember, there's no traffic

  • on the extra mile.

  • 5. Know the subject and know your audience

  • This is really about you taking the time to do the research. Before I did any of these

  • videos, guys, I've written hundreds of articles. It's why I can talk about this stuff. I mean,

  • I work full time as a custom clothier, so I see the clothing every single day. Because

  • I know the subject, I can talk very well about it.

  • Now, don't let that hold you back if you feel that you're just getting in this. When I first

  • started off, I didn’t know anything about this industry. Go back five years. I was just

  • graduating business school and I did not have a custom clothier. I wasn't a custom clothing

  • expert or a style expert, but I've worked to transform myself. And literally within

  • a period of five years, which is relatively a very short amount of time, I've been able

  • to build up the brand I have.

  • Okay. Last, I did talk also about the audience, so you want to know who you're speaking with.

  • I judged at the Venture Labs Investment Competition down in Texas and I have a lot of people presenting

  • me business ideas. I felt one of the big things that these people messed up on, is they didn’t

  • realize the audience they were going for. One of them was a great presentation, but

  • they had a video which was aimed and was really risqué. It was a minute long and they've

  • only got 15 minutes in that presentation. I really felt they should've kept that video

  • like at 15 seconds.

  • I was looking around and I was the youngest guy on that panel. Most of them were like

  • 50 to 60-year-old guys, and they were just in shock and awe that they were showing us,

  • let's just say, very interesting party photos from Southern Cal. It was a great business,

  • by the way, and I really love their business idea, but that one video, it was like, gosh,

  • you've got to know your audience a little bit better, so know who you're speaking with

  • and build the presentation or how you're talking to them.

  • Last bonus one, number six, I didn’t even talk about it or didn’t tell you I was going

  • to give you this one, but carry notes. A lot of people wonder how do I talk for so many

  • minutes without cutting up these videos. Well, really I've got a little bit of a teleprompter.

  • Well, it's not really a teleprompter. It's a whiteboard which has the points laid right

  • out there, so occasionally you'll see me look over. That's because I don't memorize this

  • stuff.

  • I try to do so many videos right now that I need this to be able to go to, but if you're

  • giving out a presentation, perhaps you can have a whiteboard in front of you, but what

  • you can't have are the notes in your back pocket. Now, hopefully you won't have to reach

  • back there and pull them out, but if you get lost, if you lose your voice, if something

  • happens, you can just excuse yourself, pull them out. No one is going to hold that against

  • you. We're all human beings.

  • Okay. So hopefully that helped. I wish you guys the best and let me know on the comments

  • what you guys think of this. It's a little bit outside of the style arena, but I think

  • it applies. I've got a gentleman, he's a speech pathologist, and we're going to be talking

  • about possibly forming an entire business that would be aimed towards helping men speak

  • better especially as more and more men are looking to get up in front of groups.

  • It would actually probably gear towards women as well, but it really would be about helping

  • people get rid of crutch words, speak in a more authoritative tone and voice so the fact

  • that you've got an accent or that you sound perhaps -- I'll just use another quick example.

  • I had a good friend, a medical doctor but he had, let's just say, a very Southern Californian

  • accent. I remember when he would talk it would pull down his credibility because he used

  • so many crutch words even though he was an incredible surgeon. It would just make him

  • not seem as professional whenever he was speaking in front of a group, so I'm curious.

  • If you guys think there's room for something like this, go ahead and leave your thoughts

  • on the comments. I will see you guys in the next video. Bye-bye.

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