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  • What up? What up? What up? Itís Marie here for another Q & A Tuesday!

  • Q: Iíve got a question! That meansve got a Q that Iím going to A! That would be

  • weird to watch me A a Q? Weíre going for it! Todayís question comes from a woman who

  • identifies herself as only S and youíll know why in just a moment. She writes:

  • ìHi Marie. First I want to let you know that youíre a true mentorThank you very much.

  • ìYouíre like the all-knowing business genius, BFF I never had. Love youLove you too,

  • S. ìNow, for my question. Iíve realized that I have a tendency toward feeling jealous

  • of people in my industry who are doing better than I am or even at the same level.

  • This jealousy is usually accompanied by irritation and cattiness which is all a result of feeling

  • threatened. I want to really shake this nasty crapThatís right, girl! ìAnd, learn

  • to be comfortable with where I am and where others are as well. What kind of insight can

  • you provide on this

  • A: S, this is such a brave, juicy question. Thank you so much for asking this. Most people

  • would be too embarrassed to bring this to light and Iím so happy that you brought it

  • up because weíre going dive into the juicy stuff! Jealousy is something that weíve all

  • experienced. It can feel awful and totally take you off your game unless you know the

  • right way to look at it.

  • Rather than thinking jealousy is bad news, Iíve got a total reframe for you here. Jealousy

  • is good news! Why? Itís good news because jealousy is a happy messenger. Itís actually

  • pointing out to you exactly where you are holding back in your business or your life.

  • Itís pointing out precisely where you need to take action or someplace where you need

  • to open your heart to move ahead.

  • Itís a clear signal from the universe thatís asking you to ìperk upî and lean in, and

  • open up in your heart and in your actions. When youíre jealous at someone right and

  • youíre looking at them, youíre going, ìYou b-tch! I could do that betterAnd, youíre

  • having all these thoughts like, ìmmÖmmÖmmÖ,î like that. Youíre essentially training your

  • subconscious mind that success is bad.

  • You are not going to allow yourself to have success because youíre basically ìbióchingî

  • out someone else whoís further ahead than you. So itís really not a good idea especially

  • if youíre ambitious and driven, and you want to have achievement yourself. Next time you

  • find yourself green with envy and seething with jealousy, here are three practical steps

  • that you can take to turn it around.

  • Step number one, next time youíre feeling jealous of someone, bless them, cheer them

  • on, and support them. In any given moment youíre either contributing to the negativity

  • in the world or youíre being a positive force. The choice is yours! Step number two is to

  • remember that this is good news. The universe is showing you exactly where youíre holding

  • back. So for example, if you find yourself jealous

  • when you see someone else speaking on stage to just a whole big crowd worth of people.

  • Thatís probably an indicator that thatís something you want to do. You want to energetically

  • thank the person whoís making you jealous because theyíre pointing out exactly what

  • you need to pursue for yourself.

  • Step number three is to remember to keep yourself in your own game. Our minds are wired to compare

  • us to everyone and thereís a little phrase I came up with thatís called the ìComparison

  • HangoverThatís when you look around at everyone else and they seem to be doing so

  • much better than you are. And you could spend you know, hours to a couple days having a

  • comparison hangover.

  • You feel like crap about yourself. You donít really get anything done and basically you

  • just tell yourself that you suck and everyoneís way further ahead than you are. So you got

  • to get back into your own game. Take a look in your own business, in your own life. What

  • are you grateful for? Whatís working and what can you take action on, right now?

  • S, thank you so much for this super-brave and juicy question. I love getting into this

  • topic. So if you like this video, like it, leave a comment and of course, if youíre

  • not yet on the newsletter list. You better come on over to marieforleo.com and jump on

  • it. Thank you so much for watching andll catch you next time!

What up? What up? What up? Itís Marie here for another Q & A Tuesday!

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