Name: 美容基準の醜い真実＋私の不安 (the ugly truth about beauty standards + my insecurities)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T09:44:54.000Z
Duration: 24 min 55 s
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Hey, guys, welcome to my bedroom and in my bare naked face.

So I have been meaning to film an everyday makeup tutorial for probably like three months now.

It's been on my to do list for a hot second, but every single time I think I'm ready to film the video.

I get my camera set up, I get my makeup out and I look in the mirror and there's something about my face that I don't like that day, whether it's like Oh, my cheeks for two chubby today or like I have acne scars that I'm still dealing with.

Let me just wait until those go away, and then I'll fill this video later on.

And eventually it just occurred to me that it's so absurd that I am this person on the Internet trying to be this like feminist, empowering, badass person.

Yet I still barely have the courage to show my bare face on screen for like a split second.

Feeling confident in yourself and battling and security is something so much easier said than done.

And it's still something that idea with to this day.

I wanted to talk to you guys about kind of my journey with insecurity shift.

And I still deal with my thoughts on social media and marketing and the makeup industry and how it all effects how we perceive ourselves.

So, yeah, I've really been enjoying these, like, girl talk videos with you guys.

So yeah, that is the video that you're watching today.

Okay, So my first step, I feel like such a fucking beauty guru.

I used to not be a primary person, but I later on so much flush that it does actually help when you have oily skin to have, like a primer to lock it all down and make sure it doesn't slip Totally optional.

I know primers could be kind of expensive for something that seems to not do that much for your skin.

I grew up very carefree tomboy type and high school was the first time that I really became self aware of how I looked.

High school also happened to be the time when I started getting really, really bad acne.

Pretty much my entire cheek area was always covered with zits for, like, four years of my life.

So I really started using makeup as something defensive almost every single day in high school.

Whether I was going to school or work, I had to put on foundation concealer eyebrows.

It was like this mask that I had to wear in order to become like a socially acceptable version of myself.

I literally felt like it would be offensive to other people if I went out with my bare skin and my acne and people had to see it.

I looked so different without makeup and with makeup on that I ended up having this almost like imposter syndrome for my own face.

If that makes sense, I felt like I almost had two different faces.

There was my makeup face, and there was the face that I woke up to every morning, and I honestly didn't know which one I identified with more.

I would look at my super acne ridden face, and I would say I don't feel like this.

I don't feel like this person, but when I put make up on.

I also felt like I was still faking people out because I knew what I looked like under the makeup.

This is the foundation I used by the way.

It's basically like a tinted moisturizer.

I like it because it's super glowy, and it also just has this cool like bull apparatus.

And I do love a good ball, so this is very much a side note, but I honestly think if you ever feel insecure about how your vagina looks, just think about how weird Guy's balls are.

So there's no point in being embarrassed about what yours look like, anyway, that was completely unrelated to this.

This whole face talk, but I just have insecurity about how my vagina looked as well.

So just saying one time in high school, I think it was for my 17th birthday.

My friends came over for a little surprise birthday party gathering, and my mom called me downstairs and I thought she was just calling me to, like, do dishes or have dinner or something like that.

So I came down in my sweat pants and my glasses without any makeup on.

And there I see all of my friends, and I was so mortified because the vast majority of them had never seen me without makeup on before.

So I remember in this moment that was supposed to be something like really happy like, Oh my God, that's so cool that all of my friends are here to celebrate my birthday.

I was just freaking out, like trying to cover up the side of my face with my hair, trying to figure out if everybody was judging me for the way that my skin looked.

I think that Megan can be empowering to people.

I think that some people really do find enjoyment and art in it.

But I think the sad thing nowadays is that woman are expected toe wear makeup so often that it becomes this barrier to actually living your life to the fullest.

As cheesy as that sounds, it's this barrier to actually being spontaneous because we have this, you know, 2030 minutes, however long it takes you to get ready before we can hang out with people before we can go out before we can even fucking go to a meeting.

This whole construct of beauty does really, in a tangible way, become a barrier to woman just like enjoying their lives.

Sometimes I wonder how much more of my life I genuinely could have enjoyed if I wasn't worried about how I looked or whether my concealer was slipping off or whether my IRAs looked all right are I had to run to the bathroom to fix my hair.

Okay, here is my face all foundation duck to cover any little spots that my foundation missed.

I have this concealer I've been using for ages from Nars.

I am looking for an alternative, though that's cruelty free.

If you do happen to have any suggestions, leave him down below.

So obviously I had insecurities about my acne when I was in high school.

But growing up in suburban Maryland, I really was never insecure about the way that my face looked or the way that my body looked.

I never felt like I wasn't pretty enough.

I just knew that I didn't have clear skin.

A is a whole new world of beauty standards.

When I came to college, that was the first time that I really deeply felt insecure about the way that I looked.

And it was something that was on my mind every single day.

I knew that I shouldn't be comparing myself to other people, but I literally couldn't help seeing in L.

All of these beautiful, beautiful girls with like, model faces.

It made me feel worse about myself, even though nobody else's beauty should rob away from my feeling of beauty.

But, like if we're being honest, it fucking does.

It's really hard to look at beautiful people and not feel less beautiful yourself.

A also has a very white and blonde standard of beauty.

In my high school, there were a lot of Asian kids, and there were also a lot of mixed kids that looked like me, and I never felt like I was any less beautiful or attractive because of being half Asian and half white.

That was the first time that I really felt like I would never fit into what people defined is beautiful because of my race, and L.

Was also one of the first time that I became very like aware of how my race affected my everyday interactions.

I was walking to my internship and ah, guy on the street yells at me, Hey, you Chinese girl trying to be white.

But don't fucking comment on my race in the string.

Also, realistically, please don't comment on my ass either.

Like when I was on a date with a white guy.

Somebody yelled out of the car like, Hey, white agent, I love that.

It was super normal for there to be interracial dating because it's the fucking 21st century and nobody should care anymore.

I never would have expected my race to be something that mattered more in L.

That it didn't fucking suburban Maryland, but it really did.