time with Gary stay tuned for highlights how do you manage to have intimacy with

three kids always around do you feel like people think you're my dad I think

yeah I think there are times when people think I'm your dad well that's nice look

like ride on the ferris wheel are you crying for real yeah hi guys so today I

decided to cancel Monday and make it into a quality time day for Gary and I

it will it be TV quality I think so I planned a bunch of like

random stuff for us to do and it's like a road trip for us to spend some quality

time together but also to get shop with each other doing this road trip

the bulerías planted I don't know where she's taking us I don't know we are

doing this like you and I because I feel like with Q&A so we start talking about

things and in the previous videos we've we did it actually like I enjoyed it I

enjoyed all the videos we'll area puts me into you love the attention I don't

love the attention I don't love the spotlight that's not since an you know

how do you manage to have intimacy with three kids always around

I guess they like because we travel often if that kind of gives us some

space from that it's big house it's good how do you feel with getting upset or

annoyed with each other I feel like I shut down I prefer to like not speak or

communicate until I think that the breath and just like calm myself down I

don't want to explode or just like say things that I can't take back later we

have to disagree on things in order to grow the key thing is the ability to

resolve conflict conflict will happen you are going to argue you will have

disagreements how do you resolve that conflict do you put your ego away to

come to an amicable agreement or are you debating and arguing to get the upper

hand I read something it was so good when you argue when you have a

disagreement you have to remember that it's you and him versus the problem not

you versus him what are some things that Gary learned from you

what a good question I learned patience it's not from you it's because of you

know you're right I learned from you that just because you have an argument

with somebody it doesn't mean the relationships not giving up on a

relationship is another huge thing what is your favorite trait of Aries and vice

versa if you like in situations where it's like very intense just stay calm

and in here I could bring strength to me and just like feeling that everything's

the problem is yeah there's an Esso ride ya know why does my your favorite thing

about me I know a lot of people are gonna say it's because you're really

pretty that's what people think that's not a

trait being attractive I know maybe my favorite thing about you is that you're

really smart you know that's my absolute favorite treat

I feel like now because you just mentioned that I'm very smart

I think this would be a great time to show you how I remember what kind of gas

we we're gonna continue with the questions

with first I wanna impress you oh and impress you with putting gas in

the car meaning you're gonna delegate to me to put gas in the car no I'm gonna

put the gas in it you're gonna put the gas in the car I'm gonna use that cheap

one no no no no no go no stop when you go to the ISO station you use this

energy supreme who are you getting very fast I am very passionate about it I'm a

car guy you know I'm a car guy synergy supreme

I don't know why I could then it should have to do this instead of Gary thank

you for that I don't feel the camera angle is fully

appreciating my hat right now all right look at this I match just gonna go

outside I leave you for literally five minutes and you still managed to find

fashion so we are on the egg on the lake it's such a cute quaint that oh my god

you came out with the hat well I found this it is cute right I just thought

it's gonna be a little nicer weather oh

wait wait oh my god stop again

oh it gets spinning we ever had a serious fight I don't think it was very

serious fighting me kid almost eight years of marriage I've

never slept on the couch so I don't know that tells me that never had a serious

one what you longest and the part that you guys are okay to spend money the

longest was I think it was before we had kids that I went to Israel for like two

weeks what's the age difference between you

two and what have you learned about it the good and the bad so different is 18

years you would think that me being a senior civilian I would have to be

running around them I would have to be running around after you but I feel like

I have more energy you just want to retire and wear linen all day

so were you pleasantly so oh my god look it looks like from a movie what movie is

it you think I don't know like back home for Christmas or something I think they

had this in gremlins they had a town like this

I like gremlins so now we are still a secret or can you tell me what it is go

get some relaxation how do you manage your bank account

separate or joint accounts everything is joined I think I've just old-fashioned I

know there are some people who separate everything off once they get married to

me it's like we're married everything is together so I do you handle jealousy

acting out with the boys I'm struggling with my five-year-old I feel like when

they don't have enough attention they'll act out which is kind of a signal for

myself and Gary to plan some more one-on-one time with them so they feel

like they have their own space with the parents so I think that's important

acting out usually they're trying to get your attention if you're struggling with

that that may be like find ways where it really is just you and your son you

don't have to do anything extravagant just like quality time how do you know

that Gary appreciates you how do you know that I appreciate you you catering

to my needs and I feel like you try to do your best to make things

easier for me my mission is to make you happy by making you happy I make the

children happy and by you and the children being happy I'm happy

so I do whatever it takes okay babe so we are here we're gonna do a little spa

treatment you're gonna get a massage yeah and then we're gonna continue to

some other stuff so can I read the question yeah this one person wrote

people assume my boyfriend is my dad how do you guys deal with this and the

stairs do you feel like people think you're my dad I think yeah I think there

are times that people think I'm your dad but really yeah I think so but letting

it cool that you know not like a regular mom I'm a cool mom right Regina please

stop talking people can think what they want we have a great marriage we have

three beautiful kids we were business together the fact that people will look

and make comments or stare you shouldn't matter and to the person who asked this

question I don't think it should matter to you either because you know at the

end of the day you have to live your life I feel the same I feel like I don't

really have opinions about it anymore I think I was sensitive about it before

when we just started dating really yeah because I was like oh what might think

about me whatever I felt like I need to prove people something but there's no

use of spending any time or energy thinking about how to make other people

comfortable with my life I've always wanted to come here I'm happy that

you're living your dream oh look how big this one is whatever it is that you're

doing now I don't think will work what is that even supposed to be

whoa you see wine is chilling there on the floor baby's dead

oh no he's dead he's not a pigeon dr- pies come jealous of you something that

you have strived for that is enter this realm of the butterfly that is correct

this looks like the most happening city in the world but look there's no lines

you see it's great you see I had planned it for you have there been any

fatalities on this ride it hasn't happened yet okay what do you mean I

mean I'm not feeling it I'm scared though look how high we are

look how we dangling you think the kids would like this

I think they would be so scared they'd be so proud right now Thanks nothing

mastered before how do you balance that excitement only Gary and with kids and

family I feel like you deprioritize me you do

I think I'm not on the top of the list of you first it's the kids and then it's

me lately I've been feeling very guilty with the kids I know that I should

prioritize you I know and I do try but there are times like right now without

going to just like trying to find the right harmony of work and you and the

kids and myself it's easier said than that yeah but it's not realistic that at

the age of twenty nine you should have everything figured out but why how was

the arrival of your first kid how did you manage it

it was completely unexpected not the child behind Jake on purpose I think it

was chaos I was so out of my element I had no idea what was going on it's

complete they just want such a 180 for me because I came from a place where all

I have to think about is me to taking care of this little baby I gotta say and

I probably don't tell you this thank you for doing a really good job I really do

and I think maybe part of your anxiety is that you maybe you don't hear it for

me I just don't tell you because I take it as a given but I'm assuming that you

know that you're doing a really good job I've always really impressed with you so

you know I think I should be telling me that more because I feel if I did tell

you that more then you wouldn't have this bum deal because you're doing an

incredible job Ferris wheels are you fried for real yeah did you think that I

thought you were doing a bad job with the kids I know if he thought I was

doing bad you would like say something I needed me to give you that positive

reinforcement yeah always that's my biggest weakness

the kids I would feel like I'm not doing feel the kids are your biggest weakness

yeah funny because I feel the kids are your biggest strength you see that's why

we're doing Q&A it's like therapy I tell you what's funny is people probably pay

a lot of money to get to this place they don't know that they just need to go on

social media yes people what they want to know is yes David so basically we

just had a breakthrough things are great now but I think things will only get

better

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