Youknow, I mean, I thinkthat's themost, umrewardingthingoutofitisthatyouknowwhenyou'rebeingyourself, Andipeoplesoenjoybeingaroundschool.
How's singlelifetreatingyou?
It's cool, man.
It's good.
I'm enjoyingsinglelife.
I feelthatyouhavetoenjoysinglelifebeforeyoucanenjoybeingin a couple.
Youknow, showit's true.
Andyouareenjoyingit.
I'm doingit.
Areyou?
Areyouoneofthose?
Areyoulike a massivedata?
Doyoudolike I'lldotwodays a week, threedays a week?
Orisitlikeonce a monthforyou?
I probablydon't evendon't wantsomeonealwayshaving.
Hasitbeendifferentsincegettingout?
Isthatit?
Hasthatbeensomethingthatsurprisedyou?
Howdifferentisgettingoutandbeingyouovernow?
Asopposedtobeforeyouwentin?
Howhisdatinglifedifferent?
Um, I haven't datedanyone.
Youhaven't.
Youhavebeenononedate.
Didyoubeenatthevilla?
That's unbelievable.
Butthedamsmustbefirerightnow, but I don't readand I don't I don't I don't reended.
I don't readintothetweetsandstuffbecauseit's just a dangerousislookingatlikebadstuff.
Yeah, I mean, toomuchgoodtomuchofanythingisaboutyou.
Yeah.
Sothethingis, though, if I wastogoinLoveIsland, I wouldsay I'm anaveragelookingbloke, and I wouldcomeoutandbelike, Hey, I'venoticedthedifference.
Youwentintall, handsomeandgoodlooking, so I don't knowwhatthechangewouldhavebeen.
Really?
Whenyoucameout, Youknow, I mean, I feellike a flirtywithyouquietly.
I don't know.
Uh, he's great, and I madeuncomfortable.
I'm sorry.
No, neveruncomfortable.
Alwayspositiveenergyiscool.
Well, listen, weneedtotalkaboutthisbecause I feellikewewouldwewouldbekilledifwedidn't speakaboutthis.
Because I know a lotofpeoplewanttoknow, and I wasprobablyfrustratingbecauseitisdelvingintoyourlifeandintolifeoffMissAmber.
ButcanwetalkaboutAmberand a travellodge?
Canyouput a rumortobedforus?
HaveyouheardaboutthisAmberandtravelLodgeonover?
Mymatestoldmeaboutit.
anytree.
Findit?
No, no, no.
It's a goodfriend.
It's a verygoodfriend, man.
Umand I thinktheimportantthinginallofitisforeveryonetoappreciatethepeopleoftheoppositesexcanbefriends.
Yeah, ofcourse.
Yeah, that's that's, umit's a dangerouslinewe'replayingwithwhenthat's themessageofputtingoutfromthefeverandfromthemillsaid, Yeah, youknow, weknowwhat a fewmonthsand I are.
No, youshouldgetoutnow.
It's like, OK, doesthatmeanthatyoucan't befriendswith a guyto a certainlevel?
Areyousayingthataboutyourself?
Because, youknow, it's almost a reflectionofwhatyouthinkaboutyourselftowhatyouprojectontooffice.
So, yeah, I thinkitisimportanttoappreciate a goodfriendship.
Man.
I thinkyou'llbeweirdtospendsomuchtimetogetherwitheveryoneinthevillaandthengo, Hey, you'retheoppositesex, so I can't see.
Youknowthat's a strangeron B rule, likeyouknow, iswe'remissingoutman.
We'remissingoutwhenthat's theanglethatwetake, we'remissingoutBecausethere's a lotas a manyoucanlearnfrom a woman.
Andthat's a toughwoman, youknow, because I haven't I haven't gottenbackandwatchedit, so I don't evenknowanyoneknows.
Reallysore.
Didn't see.
Um, butit's hardtoremember.
Well, theexactadvice.
Yeah.
Uh, I couldn't tellyouspecificallywhat I couldn't tellyouspecifically.
Mywholethingwas I wasn't necessarilyouttryingtogive a goodorbadadvice.
I wasjusttryingtogivehimmyperspective, mygenuineperspective, Um, andjusthoping, give, youknow, anothersetofeyesto a situation.
Youknow?
I mean, themoreperspectiveswecanseestuffon, youknow, thethemoreinformedwe'remaking a decision, youknow?
I mean, it's likemaking a decisionthroughonesetofeyesandthenhaving 12 differentcameraangles, you'llmake a muchbetter, youknow, decisiononwhateverisseenfromlookingatorder 12 anglesthanjustlookingatforyourownsetofeyes.
I mean, I thinkit's justlearningfromlearningfromit, butlearningfromitwithout, umbutcomeinwithoutyourheart, yourheartgettinghardand, youknow, I mean, youreallyjustneedtoseethelessoninit, becauseifyoucandothat, thenyou'llgrowfromit.
Butyourmindcheatingisjust a finkIt's a learningprocess.
Diditaffectyoucanshedon?
Ofcourseitis.
Yeah.
Andandyouknowit.
I think I I changedfor a whilebecauseitmademe a bitbillfrom a minute, youknow?
And I wantto, Youknow, when I was, youknow, mysituation.
I'm toldhim I wasfromsecretarywhen I wasyoung.
Yeah, butitstillsingsAptitudewhenyourkidthatthatreallysortofshapeusformingrelationships, relationships, youknow, I mean, onAnd I thinkitmessedupfor a while.
Thethetrust I hadandwomen, whichisn't fair, youknow?
I mean, youcan't put, um, thedecisionof a teenageyoungladyoneverywoman.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Youknow, youjustcan't dothat.
Yeah, justhadtoe, youknow, learnfromthat.
Andeventuallysomething I hadtoletgo.
Andthen I wasabletoseethelessonsfromit.
Yeah, and I wanttogetsomeveryquicklylovecoachadvice, actually, becausethisroomisthemoment, thatbroadpictureandgetbackwithJenniferAniston.
Yeah, I needtoseewhatshe's unbeatabletorespectwhatshe's.
I thinkifhe's cometo a placewherehe's Maura, peacewithinhimself, youcanonlygivewhatyouhave, Youknow?
I mean, soifyoudon't havetruehappinessinsideandonlyeachoneofuswillknowthathewouldknowthatifhe's notreally, reallyhappy, then I wouldn't adviseitbecauseyoucan't givewhatyoudon't have.
Butifhe's cometo a placenowwherehe's learnedfromlessonsandblah, blahandhe's got a happierplaceinhislifebutgenuinelypeaceful, happyplacenowyoucannotgiveherhappinessandadviceofus.
It'lljustbouncebackbeforewell, I would.
I wouldliketopitchyouanappideawhere I justdownloadanappandyoujusttalktomeaboutlifeforanhour, a dayaboutthings, and I'd feelgoodaboutmyselfafterthat.