Name: カロリーヌ・フラックから学ぶべき教訓 : メンタルヘルスの危機に対処している人へのメッセージ (LESSONS TO BE LEARNT FROM CAROLINE FLACK : A Message for Anyone Dealing with a Mental Health Crisis)
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What a sad, sad day is And lots of you I know on the channel have Bean wouldn't use to comment on the Caroline Flack.

It's kind of sweet, because if you think because of the connection to love island and I do love island love, love island and always have I didn't know Caroline Flack never met Caroline Flat cost a lot of people that I know.

I know that people are absolutely devastated Was the shop of it because, I mean, we found out last night when I saw the headlines come through.

And yet I hate to say this friend of ours is here.

C'mon, as I walked into the room, I remember thinking at the time that the story broke.

We need Everyone needs to be really, really careful here.

And it's not what This isn't like hindsight.

And I don't share these thoughts all the time.

Especially when the girls, because you don't be suggesting that suicide is is such a common thing.

We've bean blighted by, unfortunately, too many times.

And so when the story broke, I didn't want to say I didn't want to appear sensations just within this environment of the family.

But I remember thinking, I don't feel happy about this because, you know, there was just something about her on the way.

The story broke on the way the story was managed and how I saw her reported on how I saw conduct herself in the immediate aftermath of it that suggested I don't know why I just kept it in the name of the woman he scare with them.

I just felt that was according there was no chaos.

There was chaos around emotional chaos around it.

Well, because you know a lot about depression you know a lot about when we talk to you guys a lot here about you know, about depression, about anxiety, about how these about the building.

That's what I see, and I'm no, I want to keep saying I don't know Caroline Flat and you know, but anybody can see that this was one thing after another that was piling up.

Suicide is an incredibly complex thing, and no one thing is going to be the reason that anybody's taken their life.

And I think that it has been oversimplified in some face.

And I mean, we've had experience of this in the last year where we've lost two people in our lives total.

So and in all instances, the terrible, terrible sadness of what happens straight afterwards is unfortunately and it's it's not born of meanness or blame or any of that sort of aura is born of horrible.

Everyone starts to frantically trying to sign the reason to his comprehensible a reason as possible.

And I think this is one of my biggest concerns around mental health issues.

Suicide, because for anyone to take their life, is very easy to identify that thing for one thing, and somehow make that entirely responsible for it.

Which doesn't help in many regards the people who end up being blamed or feel like they're part of the blame or part of the responsibility because it's, you know, no one, I think We have to assume that everyone operates in life, not assuming someone's gonna kill themselves.

And autumn It's always the most terrible shit.

I mean, you know, when when my ex killed himself, I couldn't have been more shot.

I just couldn't have been what I still think 20 years later, I still don't ah, 100% believe it.

Every time I hear of a suicide, there's a little unpeeled ing of the onion, Another layer off it or ago that did happen.

So my heart really is breaking for a ll the people that you are because it's day one.

It is day one off the longest longest journey of acceptance.

I was just gonna say I mean, where I get where I was a bit breathless with disbelief and not so I'm not surprised if you know no one alive The same time last night, I did come in and I said, At what point did anyone think nothing awful was gonna happen if you remove her profession?

Though I understand ITV were actually in discussions for her to come back.

Every single person has said that she did step down.

So she knows she's done damage, or what's happening has done damage to her professional career.

Yeah, and then the CPS decides to enforce a separation.

Finally, she must have been financially worried as well.

I don't think there would have been there, too.

But you know all those considerations for a woman of 40.

She's thinking her whole life is potentially falling, falling down around her.

She'd also you know, there was also this pressure on her to plead guilty and all of that sort of stuff on dhe.

You know, if you don't, it's like when I was done for drink driving.

You know, you only that if you plead not guilty plea and they think you're just gonna be found guilty, you're gonna get more severe sentence.

So but without getting into the nitty gritty of all of that, she clearly felt she was in a encryption.

And you know, the idea that someone could keep taking all of this and the thing that really affects me.

And I was listening to someone say this on the news last night is the domestic abuse.

If this is a domestic abuse case that we don't know that yet we don't have a detailed way.

Just want to be so clear in this film that everything that we say we don't know, I don't know.

I think a lot of here saying You have set up an absolute all of that will have paid a big part in her demise is my.

My fear with Caroline Flack is that she was becoming almost in a really horrible way the post to go public poster girl off the CPS and the authorities somehow being seen to deal with domestic violence from a woman to the man in a strong and efficient away as possible.

But I think in that sense she became a little bit kind of not hounded, but a little bit made too much of an example.

Domestic violence against men is a real thing.

We do not know what happened in the privacy of hers on our boyfriends home.

But what he has said over and over again is actually he's let's read his And he said, My heart is broken and we had something so special I'm so lost for words I'm so much pain I miss you so much I know you felt safe with me You always said I don't think about anything else when I'm with you And it was no allowed to be there this time I kept asking and asking I will be your voice, baby.

I will promise I will ask all the questions you wanted and I will get a ll.

The answer's nothing will bring you back But I will try and make you proud every day I love you with all my heart.

Now it seems that the CPS had forbidden them.

No, we've also We've is also out there that she was depressed and no anti depressants again.

We don't know she was on antidepressants, but living with mental health illness in this household and a lot of you having mental health.

Can you imagine if you were in a crisis and you're forced, isolated, and then your enforced not to see Mei on.

Then I just Did they just go through the standard gentle like once somebody has been in a domestic violence situation.

Because they're damned if they do, and they damned if they don't, they might let somebody see somebody where there's been a domestic violence charge on.

Then, you know, whatever went on, we don't know.

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