Name: アシュリーのお姉ちゃんへのアドバイス（デート、学校、お尻を蹴ること (ashley’s big sis advice (dating, school, kicking ass))
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T09:24:09.000Z
Duration: 18 min 17 s
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I asked you guys on my story for questions, and there were a lot of really good personal ones I want to answer in another video.

But I noticed that a lot of them had to do with, like, advice and kind of figuring your life out.

Because for some reason, I think you guys have the impression that I have my shit together, which trust me, I do not.

And I mean that literally, too, because I don't have enough fiber in my diet.

But we're off to a great start in this video.

So my first and most ass category of questions or about dating.

So I thought for this I would bring in our resident male slash dating expert to help me answer, though.

My chair was not made for big sis survives because of you.

Before David came, I answered them by myself so I might kind of cut back and forth.

So don't like freak out if the camera angle changes and David disappears every so often, but he'll probably come back unless you don't say anything useful.

My first question is how to tell if a guy likes you guys are pretty obvious.

How do you think if his name is David, then he's definitely into me.

This'll is something that I wish I had gotten real advice on when I was in middle school and high school, because I spent so many of those years trying to look up online articles or, like, fill out a buzzfeed quiz.

But he made 5.9 seconds of eye contact with me across the room and chemistry class.

Now that I think about it, those articles always had a weird emphasis on exactly how long he shared it.

Laughing at everything When you try to be funny, even if you're not funny, I'm sure we've all experienced that like you say a joke.

And you're like, Wow, that was right down there.

She's like, Did you not think I was funny?

But you know your situation best, and you're smart.

In high school and middle school, I like so many different guys.

And I had a really intense crushes, but I always had to spend so much effort convincing myself that maybe he still liked me.

All of the evidence I knew deep down pointed otherwise he probably wasn't interested.

I have been through this struggle to I've always been single the majority of my life.

My relationships haven't been that long, so I don't know that I have been single and mingling around for quite a while before I found David.

My advice is the advice that everybody fucking gives, but it's so true, you have to be totally okay.

You really have to feel confident in yourself and feel like you have your own purpose in life before you dive into a relationship.

Trust yourself before you can trust someone else.

If you're not happy with yourself, how someone else gonna be happy with you?

When I was younger, I used to hate hearing this advice, especially in my earlier years of college, where I was really like Thurston for a boyfriend.

I really just wanted a relationship Thio Fill the time or feel some kind of void in myself.

Relationships will never solve your problem.

It's like a Band Aid, but it looks like it will eventually get words are like a bandit.

I think this this metaphor has gone too far, too.

Next time for wound care 102 over this past summer, where I started working for myself and really dedicating myself to my YouTube channel in putting effort into my videos.

I was living on my own for the first time.

I really found who I was when I was alone.

And I think that it made me such a better dater slash girlfriend.

I realized the sound super obnoxious because I'm, like, newly in a relationship.

And I'm like, Oh, well, we have everything figured out.

But obviously, even after you feel confident in your single south, there is a whole lot of luck involved.

I know you have to sift through a bunch of people who are gonna be bad for you in order to find somebody who's right there in the dates of people that are not compatible at all.

You're gonna go to a restaurant, sit there for two hours.

It seems like an eternity because it's such a struggle.

One in 20 people you go out on a date with you could end up like dating for a while.

It doesn't work out right away, because, I mean, I use them for years before I found someone.

Well, you didn't know it was like your second book all day.

I mean, I use them like Did you want to eat?

So it's just a matter of putting yourself out there trying to be the best human you can be.

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