This is something that probably it's being used millions and millions of times every single day around the world.

Probably yourself.

Answer this question more than once every single day when someone tells you will ask you the question.

How are you?

Right.

How is it going?

The most common universal answer to that question is I am fine.

I am fine.

Now, if you pay close attention, he's my prediction.

Most off the answers, you will hear the either neutral or in some cases, they are negative or pessimistic.

Common below, if you know what I'm talking about.

And instead of replying the same old same.

Oh, you hear things like this? 00:00:59.740 --> 00:01:2.050 Well, not bad. 00:01:3.240 --> 00:01:5.590 Not bad, right? 00:01:5.900 --> 00:01:7.780 What happens when you use that word? 00:01:8.090 --> 00:01:9.140 Not that, I guess. 00:01:9.140 --> 00:01:10.650 Yeah, it's not great.

It's no good is not bad when you say that Enough.

Guess what do you have?

You have Ah, not bad life.

Or maybe they say Okay.

Okay, I guess.

What do you actually know.

Do you know what is going on?

Okay, I guess.

Or sometimes even worse.

Terrible, Let me tell you.

And then they go into this story off how horrible there they has been or how horrible the week has been.

See, you have to understand something that your words are incredibly powerful.

Your words shape your world.

That what you repeat to yourself on a regular basis, that becomes your reality.

So we want to choose those of words very wisely. 00:01:55.990 --> 00:02:3.160 So today I want to teach you no one, not to 15 creative ways that you could respond to the greetings. 00:02:3.340 --> 00:02:5.510 How are you in English? 00:02:6.040 --> 00:02:8.530 1st 1 when someone asks you the question. 00:02:8.580 --> 00:02:9.580 So how are you?

Absolutely wonderful.

Absolutely wonderful versus I'm fine.

That's the 1st 1 2nd 1 So how are you?

Better than good.

Better than good.

Now, when you say better than good, what you're seeing is things are going well.

I'm doing good, but better than good.

Then I'm going someplace.

I'm striving to be better editing.

Good Number three.

How are you?

I am great.

I am great.

Now you maybe say what?

Dan, I we lying to ourselves, right?

What if I am not having a good day?

That I have to pretend everything is great, right? 00:02:58.210 --> 00:03:0.120 I have to lie that people that I'm great. 00:03:0.120 --> 00:03:4.280 No positive expectation, Least a positive outcome. 00:03:4.570 --> 00:03:10.640 What we want to do is we want to take charge off how we use our words.

We want to be conscious about how we use our words.

So this is not lying to ourselves.

This not pretending.

Everything's okay.

This is how we choose how we use our words.

Number four What if there's something actually bad happening in your life?

What do you say?

Instead of saying all everything is so horrible, let me tell.

You know, he's what you could say.

Number four I recently learned.

And then you go on and share your story.

He's what is so powerful.

You see, the minute you shift, your mindset from Wise is happening to me too.

I wonder what I could learn from this.

What is this trying to teach me?

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Number five.

How are you?

I'll never been better.

I've never bean better, and sometimes people will be curious.

Tell me what's up?

What's going on.

You seem so happy.

You seem so motivated.

You seem like you are making things happen.

Things are like rocking for you.

Tell me about it.

See death.

Infectious Enthusiasm is infectious.

You want to get people excited about what you're working on versus you are like a downer every time they talk to you.

Like Oh, man, I don't want to talk to that guy.

I don't want to talk to that girl.

He is one that I like to use personally when someone asks me, How are you, Dan? 00:05:2.060 --> 00:05:3.370 That's the problem with my life. 00:05:3.380 --> 00:05:7.770 Nothing to complain about, and they chuckle like, Oh, that's cool. 00:05:8.730 --> 00:05:10.950 I'm grateful and happy, right?

Nothing completed, but there's a problem with my life, right?

That's one replied.

I like to use number seven.

You could simply sometimes reply one word.

Fantastic.

That's it.

Fantastic.

How are you?

Fantastic.

Number eight.

This sometimes I use is well, I am happy and grateful.

And you?

So I will ask them.

How are they doing?

So I am happy and grateful.

And you?

When was the last time you hear someone?

I'm happy because most people are not happy.

Let's face it right.

And most people are not grateful.

You are conditioning your mind.

You train yourself to focus on what makes you happy.

What do you learn from things?

What makes you grateful?

More? 00:05:59.300 --> 00:06:1.110 You focus on expense. 00:06:1.930 --> 00:06:5.620 That's a very powerful way to answer the question. 00:06:5.620 --> 00:06:6.280 How are you? 00:06:6.960 --> 00:06:7.850 He's another good one. 00:06:7.850 --> 00:06:8.780 Number nine. 00:06:9.200 --> 00:06:11.130 Positive and energized.

Okay.

What's what's going on again?

See, that makes people curious.

Right now.

Some people would not like that.

Just so you know, some people, people who are energy drainer as they like to pull you down.

Like what?

What makes you so happy?

You know what?

What?

Have you been ticking?

You know what drugs are you taking?

No, just happy.

Just grateful.

Just focus.

Positive.

Energized.

That's it.

Very simple answer C.

It's a deadlock that and I'm like, I'm Fang number 10.

If you have just saw some problems, you've just overcome some challenges.

You might say something like this.

So how you never felt better in a long time?

You like hoof?

It's got through some stuff, but never felt better in a long time. 00:06:59.960 --> 00:07:2.200 We'll never felt this good in a long time. 00:07:2.610 --> 00:07:3.890 Oh, tell me more about it. 00:07:4.450 --> 00:07:5.280 That's a great plays. 00:07:5.280 --> 00:07:11.170 Well, number 11 sometimes what I would reply is So how are you?

Very well, Thank you.

Very well.

What?

I'm fine.

Pretty good.

Not that Now, keep in mind your tonality matters.

You cannot just say the word.

And then you have the wrong emotion that goes with these words.

So you cannot just say Well, I'm wonderful.

It's awesome.

I'm happy.

You know, I'm very happy.

That doesn't work.

Okay?

You have to have the right in motion.

You have to have a smile.

You have to be happy when you're expressing some of these things when you're replying.

So you have to have the very emotion, right?

One of the very creative ones that I've heard from actually from a lady, she said.

Well, my kids are happy and healthy, and my husband is They're trying to impress me.

That's a That's a nice answer.

That's a very, very nice answer. 00:07:58.720 --> 00:08:8.380 Now, if you want to have a liberty fund, if let's just say that you are talking to someone that you are interested to date Okay? 00:08:8.380 --> 00:08:10.590 It is about your your romance.

Now you won't have a little fun.

You wantto you want to flirt with the auto body a little bit.

So when they ask you, how are you?

You could say something like this.

So how are you?

Well, I'm better now.

You're with me.

Give this smile and look him in the ice.

Or number 14 You could say in a kind of cocky, humors kind of way.

So how are you?

Well, I'll feel better if you go with me.

Just smile or you won't have some fun.

The last one.

So how are you?

Are you flirting with me?

There you go.

Those are the 15 creative ways that you could reply way better than I'm fine, right?

Wouldn't you agree?

You see successful people. 00:08:57.120 --> 00:09:6.890 They see opportunity in every difficulty and unsuccessful people they see difficulty in air free opportunity so common below. 00:09:6.900 --> 00:09:12.250 Next time Today, Tomorrow, when someone asks you the question How are you?

Which one you're gonna use?

Which one you wanna have some fun with and see how they react and see how they respond to you.

And come back Common below and let me know.

I want to see you answer.

Go ahead and do that.

Have some fun with this.