I just can't believe these letters when I get him.

But here's George George writes and says, Dear Tom, I need your pro advice.

My girl is 22 I'm 19.

Strike one and we have a newborn, which he misspelled ing.

But his two separates new space born Strike two.

It's a girl and I don't know whether to weather spelled W E T h E r.

I don't know whether to stay with her or d t.

B.

And here comes Strike three.

At least he says, I'm going into the Marines in October.

Should I stay with her or di Tay be?

Can you help signed George in a George Johnny Love you like a son?

I really do.

Why in the world at 19 do you have a girlfriend?

Why in the world at 19 are you knocking up your girlfriend and why you're doing this and then going into the Marines?

George, did you pay any attention?

Anything I've said over the years when you go to the Marines, that girlfriend of yours is gonna have access to your meager marine salary, your generous military benefits, and potentially your retirement pay.

You can think that far ahead.

By going into the military, you are guaranteeing a that when you're called away to service, you're gonna be leaving your three years older girlfriend and your daughter alone, where these women get into all kinds of trouble, mainly banging other guys when you're not there.

We get these reports on our boys in the military all the time.

And then if you marry her and divorce her, she can nail you for vagina.

Mom, let's say you marry her and things turn out lousy as they usually do for people your age.

You will end up paying vaginal.

Now you will have to pay.

Chocks boy, there's no doubt about it.

And I don't know why you would want to ruin your life his way.

I mean, you're essentially flushing your life down the toilet and I do not understand people who flush the lives down the toilet.

I really don't.

I bristle when I see stories like this.

I mean, since a young age, I have saved money gone to school as long as I could afford to got training, learn more about what I do for a living move from city to city.

I had a calculated plan to become who I am today.

I don't understand Completely carefree people who don't care what happens to them.

They just don't care.

Groups.

I knocked her up.

Whoops.

She had the baby.

Oops.

I don't know.

Should I dump that bigger?

Should I stay with her?

Nowhere in this letter.

Do I see that you love this chick at all?

Should you stay with her or dumped that bitch?

The question is amazing.

I talk about this stuff all the time.

I talk about not knocking up your girlfriend, not having babies, not getting married before.

You're at least 25.

Or you realized your dream not to have a serious girlfriend who's three years older than you are.

I don't get it.

George, Do you really hate yourself that much?

Do you really think you have that little potential to change the world?

To do anything to create a product, to cure disease, to invent something the build a business to do something unique and lasting?

Do you really think that little of yourself in 19 Have you already flushed yourself down the toilet?

You hook up with a girl was older than you are.

You're not even in the Marines yet.

You're not in college.

The hell you can't even spell, pal.

Now you join the Marines.

And by the way, this show is the biggest supporter of all of our boys in the military.

They're a big part of our listening audience.

But I tell you guys all the time, if you're going into the military, no serious relationships with anybody always used a condom.

Never spend money on bronze.

You won't have a girlfriend or a wife on till you get out of the service.

When you're done and you achieve your dream, I understand that it's probably scary.

Go into the military at 19 to face the possibility of going to Iraq or Afghanistan or Kuwait.

So wherever we're going to send people, I understand that.

I understand it's scary, but having a girlfriend or a wife provides only a false sense of security because we hear so many stories of these girls all action on the military guys.

Then you go off and then give you the tearful goodbye.

And then they proceed to bang everybody in the neighborhood while you go later when they get knocked up like somebody else, that they fall in love with somebody else and the unceremoniously dump you there.

Then take a little bit.

Nice parting gift when they go.

A lovely parting gift.

Yes, they take part of your paycheck.

They take part of your benefits.

They take party retirement income before you be well retired there.

They're getting their claws in there.

What George is doing here is just throwing his life away.

He's throwing it away, and he can't even see it in his life and start his life swirling around in the booth goes George.

Good thing he's in the Marines.

So big and swim.

You gotta be kidding me, pal.

Have I got this wrong, Tom?

Like 1 800 500 What?

805 106?

I'm just honest.

I I love you for it.

I like it.

1 805 800 Tom.

Telephone number Cherry on the down low.

Being a woman, it's not popular to agree with you, but I do on about 85% of what you think, huh?

So the kids not you're right on with him.

I don't I don't get it.

I don't get like I mean, all I can say is that George is a guy who doesn't have the guts to put the gun to his head and pull the trigger.

So he's gonna kill himself slowly.

I have to say I'm a navy wife.

We've been my husband has been in the military for 15 years and we have been married for just under 18.

I have never personally messed around on him.

Just because you have it doesn't mean this isn't rampant.

Oh, no, no, it is incredibly rampant.

Especially with the young girls.

Yes, with guys that 17 year old boys join these girls.

I did go to bars where they hang out.

We I live in a maybe town loves a Navy bar.

Girls typically target.

All they're looking for is a free ride.

That's right.

I keep trying to warn the boys because they were a big part of our audience and trying to warn him Don't do this, that they should not get married.

If the military wanted them to have a wife, they would issue them one in boot camp.

That's true.

You know, I My husband and I, we had a relationship before he even joined the military.

And I know I'm an exception to the rule.

But that kid, he needs to stay away from any women.

Oh, he absolutely does.

And certainly had better knock up anymore.

Better not knocking anymore.

Because what happens is it.

Boys end up having the girls.

The girls go on welfare, they careers up, they take down not only the guy that has been, they take down three or four other ones, right?

There's no doubt about it.

So, you know, she bought me like he's telling the guys.

Keep it in advance.

Sherry.

Thank you for that.

It's Rob on the town, like his show.

Hello.

How are you?

I'm okay.

Right on, brother.

You are 100% spot on when it comes to all about planning things out, thinking things carefully through and not throwing your life away.

I was a musician after I left school.

Not seen in the military.

I left for five years, played all through Canada.

Never had a girlfriend, never knocked anybody up, took responsibility, Got out of it because the pay sucks.

It was a lot of fun.

Partying went back to Scott college.

Eight years of school.

I'm 38 years old, still single, making 150 k a year, uh, loving life.

And that's because you love you.

Exactly.

It's all about Nobody takes responsibility for their own actions.

And this society has to pay.

You are my tax dollars pay, and that drives me crazy.

Well, I agree with that.

And you know, again, I think people like George R.

R really the suicidal, but they don't have the guts to kill themselves, so they just throw their lives away bit by bit.

Security, security eyes is no security in others.

Because people can leave you.

They can divorce you.

They can take what you have.

The fact that somebody signs of paper and says, I'll be with you forever till death do us part.

We all know what a lie that is for at least half the population.

Absolutely.

I was always very close.

Thio three Only security is in yourself, and anyone who believes they're secure with somebody else is fooling themselves.

Absolutely, You know, don't expect much from others.

Expect much from yourself.

Make it happen yourself.

And this whole thing was just totally flushed it all down the toilet.

No doubt about it, Rob.

No doubt about it, David.

On the time.

Like it's show time.

Okay, You know what?

I joined the military when I was 17.

I joined the army, and I almost went through what that kid went through because I got married when I was 19 Had a kid and everything.

You know, you back in the days I was here.

Where were you?

You know, I never heard about Tom like it.

So I don't.

Some people right here and l A and they put me there.

You're in there everything.

Then I'm a find out.

You know, Tell these boys were 18 and 19 or go into the military.

Tell him out your experience.

Tell him why you would do it differently if you knew better.

You know what my brother wants to join?

Too young.

I had a punch him in the head a couple times, you know, wake up.

What you doing?

The service.

You know, you're you're locked down 24 hours a day.

You know, once you get to play that stuff like that, especially if you have a wife and a kid, you know you're expecting to go back home to them, They get lonely after a while.

I've seen a lot of times, you know, a lot of people seen of him in the back, going up and down the room.

You know, from one guy to another, there's a bunch of backstabbing and the service, you know, I love the don't come around, you know, that's the best thing I ever did.

I if I could change it two kids Now that you know, I'm happy with my choice.

But if I could go back, I would have, you know, kind of slowed down everything and enjoy life more.

You know?

You know, if I was that guy, what I would do is I just I wouldn't even get married.

I just leave her where she's at and just you know what I mean?

You the top report.

And then if he gets deployed or whatever, it doesn't have to be breaking his head about what's my wife doing?

What you're doing now, You know.

Who is she with?

You know, stuff like that.

Because I've seen a lot of guys that they get letters when when they're in the field, are deployed somewhere and all of a sudden you Yeah, I'm divorcing you for because you couldn't take care of me.

You couldn't give me your time because you weren't there for me.

You know?

And the poor guy's, you know, after serving the country and stuff and the broad's state, you know, they make him suicidal, you know, trying to kill themselves for their kids, you know, because there are lady left him and they think they have nothing left when they come back.

But they do.

They have their families, you know, not trying.

You could take out you go, David.

About 1 805 100 Tom, it's Katie on the town.

Like a show.

I'm okay, Katie.

I just want to say I completely agree with you first, but I think this'll guys to get a DNA test.

I don't think he should get married.

I'm a military wife, by the way.

I think every guy who is unmarried and his girl has a kid.

Frank, I go support, say every guy who's told he's a father should get that DNA test automatically.

I think automatically.

I always say that, but again, what?

The condoms fail condoms leak.

Condoms fall off.