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  • Question, hi.

  • - Sure.

  • - Sorry Dan, I'm John.

  • - John.

  • - Cool.

  • - So, in terms of interest, some people make interest

  • into a hobby and hobby into like a career, yeah business.

  • What are your thoughts on that?

  • Because I have like a lot of different weird hobbies

  • and also interest and I don't know where to go with that.

  • So I'm 19 trying to do this freelancing stuff.

  • I think it's way too common, in terms of like photography,

  • and like videography stuff.

  • So I don't know where to go from there, kind of stuck.

  • - What's your goal?

  • - What's my goal?

  • - Yeah.

  • - Well, that's the thing, I don't have a goal.

  • And I'm lost in terms of finding that goal,

  • because you said, start with a skill.

  • Like Yeah, I can just find a skill that I enjoy developing

  • but in terms of goal I don't really have that.

  • Unless like my goal is to you know,

  • be the best at that one thing, which is like.

  • - Why do you wake up in the morning?

  • - Why do I wake up in the morning?

  • - What motivates you?

  • - That's a good question.

  • I mean, like, I don't know what motivates me but.

  • - That's a good question to start off with.

  • - Yeah, sure.

  • - Before we do anything else, right?

  • What if I can't figure it out?

  • Or what if I've been attempting to

  • but I can't like figure it out?

  • - I think for anybody, like an example,

  • if I was your age at 19 years old.

  • - Yeah.

  • - My why was my mom.

  • - Right, okay.

  • - I needed to take care of my mom.

  • There was no hobby.

  • There was no anything else except taking care of my mom.

  • That becomes my sole focus.

  • - Right.

  • - And that gave me a lot clarity in life.

  • Because I put that ahead of anything else.

  • So maybe sometimes I notice, I don't know enough

  • about your family, right?

  • - Yeah.

  • (laughs)

  • - Sometimes comfort may not be such a good thing.

  • - That's the thing because I've been so, I know,

  • I'm very lucky because I'm from Malaysia, right?

  • You know, I was lucky enough to come over here and start

  • to study and the whole thing that like, you know, my dad

  • always telling me like what he had to go through

  • to put me here.

  • It's kind of making me like, oh, instead of feeling

  • like okay, I need to give back but it's more like,

  • wow, it's too comfortable.

  • - Yeah.

  • - And I, yeah.

  • - Usually because I noticed when people don't figure

  • what they want to do usually because they haven't

  • experienced enough pain.

  • - Wow.

  • - Life is good, it's comfortable.

  • - I don't think like there's like physical pain, you know?

  • - But the pain

  • - Yeah, right.

  • - So when you experience pain, you will know life

  • is precious, then you won't ___ around.

  • - Yeah, okay fair enough.

  • - When I say precious meaning, when my dad passed away,

  • when they got divorced, when I was in debt, all these things

  • at a young age it tells me you know, I don't, sometimes

  • you don't know what you want.

  • It's very good to figure out what you don't want.

  • - Right.

  • - What I know I don't want is, I don't want to struggle.

  • I want to be able to care for the people I love.

  • So that gave me a lot of clarity

  • - Oh yeah, so I actually just put myself in debt.

  • So like I know what that is?

  • - No, not necessary.

  • But then when you are, so example your mom and dad together.

  • - Yeah, they're fine.

  • - They're good, right?

  • - They're Good.

  • - Now just paint a picture in your mind,

  • it's gonna be dark, but I mean.

  • - Okay.

  • (laughs)

  • - Suddenly your dad can't support you anymore.

  • - Yup, I'd be sent back home.

  • And then your mom is sick.

  • She's in hospital but your dad can't support you anymore

  • because your mom is sick.

  • She, and he can he can't even provide

  • the best health care for you mom.

  • - Yeah.

  • - What would you do?

  • - I think do what I'm already doing now, but just develop

  • it further than already, yeah, okay I see what you mean

  • - And would you still kind of,

  • "Well I'm not so sure about what I like."

  • Or would you say, "I don't give a shit."

  • - Just doing what's already working

  • and just grow from there.

  • - Have you seen that it's given you more clarity

  • if you think of it that way

  • But think of that, it has not happened.

  • - Right.

  • - It's okay, that's just a scenario.

  • - Thank God.

  • - But, what if it happens?

  • Nothing pains a son more when your family needs help,

  • desperate needs help, you cannot help them.

  • - Right.

  • - There's nothing with pain, you will remember

  • that for the rest of your life.

  • And if your mother passed away, because as a lack

  • of ambition early on in your part, because as son,

  • you didn't develop the ability, you fucked around.

  • You will not forgive yourself.

  • - Yeah.

  • - And you will look at things very differently from now on.

  • And you will become a extraordinary person.

  • Think about that.

  • - Okay, thanks.

  • (laughs)

  • See you later.

  • Oh, we say, I need that film, I to like re play that 24/7

  • Did you film that?

  • - Yes.

  • - Thank you, thank you.

Question, hi.

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