And perhaps one will say something about what they're going through and he may be met with grow a pair, man up or shut up and have another point.

Really, all that does is closed down.

Those discussions on actually prevents me from being able to express themselves freely.

Actually, what we should be doing better together.

One of the men says I was going through something difficult is these friends should support be supported with that, perhaps, say, why didn't you tell us?

Men worry about sharing how they're feeling because they don't know how you shouldn't have to.