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  • An honest guide to attracting women without

  • faking behaviour, without lying, and without copying others. This is a summary of Models

  • by Mark Manson.

  • Before we begin, I want to tell you about my buddy and dating expert Jon who was once

  • a virgin with low self-esteem and couldn't talk to girls to save his life. But thanks

  • to discipline, will, and mentorship - He transformed his dating life. We have partnered to offer

  • you 40% off his proven training program to get the girl of your dreams in 2019. It comes

  • with 2-weeks of free mentorship. Go to AlphaEvo.com or click the link in the description.

  • Alrighty, let's get started. Part 1: Reality

  • What Are Women Attracted To? The answer? Social status. Women desire men

  • who are more powerful, successful, and popular than they are. If they believe you have the

  • potential to be extremely successful whether you are successful or not, it will spark attraction.

  • It's your behaviour that communicates your social status, not being Brad Pitt. It's

  • why the starving artist has no trouble finding a girlfriend.

  • The second attraction trigger is being desired. Being physically assertive with a girl instead

  • of just standing next to her like a platonic dingbat is a huge step you can take to spark

  • her attraction.

  • The next is true confidence. True confidence is being less invested in other people's

  • perceptions of you than in your perception of yourself. Women subconsciously detect

  • it. Not having it will cause you to seek validation from others. To build your true confidence,

  • you have to invest in yourself.

  • A major contributor to confidence is the ability to be vulnerable. Not the petty complain,

  • wine, and cry to your girlfriend kind-of-vulnerability. It's the ability to put yourself out there

  • and go 'I don't care what you think of me, this is who I am, and I am OK with it'.

  • Cold approaching a beautiful woman and sayingHi, I was nervous to come to talk to you

  • but I had to do it because I think you are cute”. That's being vulnerable. In the

  • pick up community you may be told that you are giving away your power but Manson disagrees.

  • Because if you hide your attraction or nervousness, she senses that as a lack of authenticity.

  • Another contributor to true confidence is setting boundaries. Being willing to walk-away

  • because she doesn't meet your standards is incredibly attractive.

  • Part 2: Strategy Polarization

  • Everything that is attractive is polarizing. To polarize is to make a stand in one direction.

  • If you agree with everything a girl says to you because you want her to like you, then

  • you are not making a stand for yourself.

  • There are 3 categories of women: receptive, neutral, and unreceptive.

  • Unreceptive women are typically a waste of your time.

  • Neutral women will very quickly either become receptive or unreceptive. You have a window

  • of opportunity to polarize her with your behavior. Take an action that forces her to make a decision

  • like flirting with her or asking her out on a date. You've got nothing to lose because

  • if you don't make a move, she will become unreceptive. But if you make a move, you have

  • a chance with her.

  • Receptive women are already sexually attracted to you. A few signs she is receptive is if

  • she approaches you, touches you, makes strong eye contact with you, gives you her number,

  • or introduces you to her friends. But this is rare, it's usually up to you to make

  • the first move.

  • The key to get better with women faster than you thought possible, is to always gauge the

  • interaction and how the girl is feeling.

  • The percentage of women who are receptive to you increases proportionally to the quality

  • of your lifestyle, your social status and your looks.

  • Rejection.

  • The first step to overcoming rejection is to accept that you will get rejected. It usually

  • has nothing to do with you. She may have a boyfriend. She may be flying to China tomorrow.

  • Maybe her dog just died so she doesn't feel like talking tonight. These events are outside

  • of your control.

  • If you only experience rejection every time you approach, it's likely because you are

  • not near your truth. You lack self-awareness of your own needs and desires, and carry emotional

  • baggage with you. You also lack an ability to integrate feedback. So if you keep trying

  • a technique and it constantly fails, you need to examine why and decide if you'll do something

  • differently next time. Redefining Success

  • If you don't define success with women the right way, you will waste years of effort.

  • A trap is to measure your success by metrics like flake percentages, rejection rates, and

  • lay counts. One of my dating mentors said he would be so focused on lay counts that

  • his whole dating life revolved around his list of girls he banged to fuel his ego, instead

  • of enjoying the experience. Manson suggests you redefine success as maximizing happiness

  • with whichever woman or women you prefer.

  • The 3 Fundamentals Now let's learn the 3 fundamentals that

  • will help you find your truth and become more confident.

  • 1. Honest Living: Creating an attractive and enriching lifestyle

  • 2. Honest Action: Overcoming your fears and anxiety around women

  • 3. Honest Communication: Mastering the expression of your emotions and communicating fluidly

  • We will learn honest living in the video, and the other 2 are written on my new blog

  • Part 3: Honest Living Demographics

  • Ask yourself, “Which women do I want to meet and what kind of relationship do I want

  • with them?” To be successful with the type of woman you want, you need to understand

  • context. It's rarely mentioned in the dating world but it's absolutely critical.

  • Picture a 40-year-old divorced banker meeting a woman at a museum and an 18-year-old college

  • kid sneaking into a house party to see a girl. Giving them the same advice is stupid. The

  • men have different priorities, life experiences, personalities, and interests. Women in these

  • locations will also be drastically different. Beliefs and Self-Selection.

  • If you believe all women are sluts and untrustworthy, then you will only attract women who are sluts

  • and untrustworthy. If you believe women are beautiful with exciting personalitiesyou

  • get the picture... Age, Money, Looks.

  • They matter. Not a lot, but they still matter and anybody who tells you otherwise is lying

  • or ignorant. You don't have control over your age but us men are lucky because our

  • physical attractiveness peaks at 31 but for women it's 21. Money you do have control

  • over, it just takes a different way of thinking, execution, and patience to get out of a crappy

  • financial situation.

  • And looks you have a huge amount of control over. Studies show that style, grooming, and

  • how you present yourself is more important than your physical dimensions like your oddly

  • shaped jaw-line. Heck you can even disguise your oddly shaped jawline by growing and trimming

  • a beard in a particular way. Race and The Foreigner Effect.

  • You can automatically increase your attraction by going to another country where you are

  • considered exotic. As I speak right now, I am in Colombia and get many positive reactions

  • from women when I cold approach them, partly because I am considered exotic.

  • Attracting The Top 1%. The top 1% of beautiful women in the world

  • rarely settle for a man who is not the whole package. They are more receptive as to whether

  • you are confident or not, and 99% of men desire them whereas regular women are desired by

  • 50% of men. To attract them, stop caring about how beautiful they are, and talk about anything

  • with her apart from her looks. There's not that much difference between them and other

  • women except your own thoughts about them. How to Be Attractive

  • Appearance Start grooming and maintaining yourself. That

  • means showering, shaving, wearing deodorant, and brushing your teeth. It's not hard.

  • Wear clothes that match, clothes that fit, and clothes that match your personality. And

  • get in shape. When you do these things, your dating life will literally become 3x easier.

  • Body Language Stand straight with your shoulders back. When

  • you are out on the street, look people in the eye and maintain eye contact until they

  • break it. It may feel weird at first, but this will train you to be more aware of people's

  • reactions to you. Vocal Tonality

  • Speak LOUDER. And also speak from your chest, not from your mouth. This will make your voice

  • deeper. Do this fun exercise with me: SayWhy don't you come to the party with me?”

  • Now, hold your nose and say it again, “Why don't you come to the party with me?”.

  • Did your voice change? If not, you probably already speak from your chest. But if you

  • sound nasal, then you need to work on speaking from your chest.

  • How to Be a Fascinating Person Most guys come off as just another guy. To

  • become more interesting, develop artistic taste, try new things, and have strong opinions.

  • So when a girl saysWhat is your favourite movie?” And you don't have an answer or

  • you just sayEverything” - That's boring. Practice articulating why you like or don't

  • like a movie and share that strong opinion with her.

  • Now you have the theory. But how can you actually attract the girl of your dreams into your

  • life in 2019? The answer is execution with mentorship. I literally had zero dating experience

  • in May this year. And in less than 8 weeks I was seeing amazing results. I now I have

  • the skill-set to attract an abundance of girls into my life and a huge part of my quick growth

  • was mentorship.

  • To dramatically shorten your learning curve, I have partnered with my buddy and dating

  • expert Jon to offer you a massive 40% discount for the first 50 of you who sign up to his

  • program at AlphaEvo.com. You'll get a proven training system, 1-on-1 access to Jon, and

  • 2 weeks of free mentorship. It's time to stop procrastinating and get your dream girl.

  • Click the link in the description to sign-up today.

  • Today we learnt about:

  • Part 1: Reality What women are attracted to:

  • Social status Being desired

  • True Confidence

  • With true confidence being made up of vulnerability and setting boundaries

  • Part 2: Strategy

  • Polarization The 3 categories of women which are unreceptive, neutral, and receptive.

  • And we also learnt about overcoming rejection.

  • In Part 3: Honest Living - We dived into demographics

  • which is made up of beliefs and self-selection.

  • Age, money, and looks, race and the foreigner effect,

  • and attracting the top 1%. We also learned how to be attractive.

  • Appearance - Which is made up of grooming and how you dress.

  • Body language, vocal tonality, and how to be a fascinating person.

  • My name is Brandon and I hope this video made you OnePercentBetter

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