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How do I get over someone I never even officially dated?

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Hey guys, I'm Lele Pons. You guys submitted your dating questions and I'm here to answer them.

I am here to give you guys dating advice because I have been through so much.

I mean, I live in a telenovela. So I've been: the side chick, the one that has been cheated on, the one that cheats.

And I can tell you what I've learned through those relationships

So I think I know a little bit and I hope I can help.

What are your thoughts on long distance relationships that which started out that way from the very beginning?

All my relationships have always been long distance relationships.

I haven't had a boyfriend in like the same city ever.

So which is true so long-distance relationships...

I can't say that mine have been successful.

Try to see each other, try to talk to each other as much as possible

But if they end up bad it's not because you stopped loving the person

it's because of the distance and it's too hard so you start moving on.

When texting someone new, is it better to be nice and straight to the point or to be the Alpha?

When you start texting someone new, be funny, be clever.

Don't be the Alpha, but be clever, be funny, be different. You know?

Make jokes with them but do not me straight to the point. Calm down.

If you want something serious, you should be smooth.

Well, definitely, my ideal first date is to do an adventure.

Like I wouldn't want my first date just to go on dinner.

Do something that they've never done before.

Scuba diving. You know like I want to plan my first date.

I don't like the guys planning my first date actually because I have so many ideas I want to do it.

But if a guy's trying to do it, he can be romantic.

You know what you know what, whatever he wants he can do.

But if I was doing a first date I will go and think outside the box.

My least favorite first date was like this guy was just like... he took me to eat.

Yes that was amazing, but then we just like drove around and we didn't know what to do.

Then that's it and then he took me home. What? Like... no.

Oh... I'm shy and lack confidence. How do I start a conversation with someone I match with?

You know what? Sometimes girls like shy guys and guys that are not too cocky.

And for example I love that and I think you should be shy.

But the confidence, you know, you should believe in yourself and you should try it because what's the worst that can happen?

I mean I've got every single guy basically says no to me. So it's okay.

When using dating apps, how many people should you be talking to at a time?

Sometimes one does... I don't know how to explain this

my teacher explained it better... what is that thing of 3?

You guys don't know the theory of 3? I don't know.

What is the first thing a woman notices on a date?

The first thing I notice is the screensaver.

The screensaver is so important.  you have to see if his screen saver is with a girl...

It depends you know like sometimes his screensaver is him meaning he's kind of cocky.

So, I look at the screensaver of his phone.

What if I''m into the guy and not into the guy at the same time?

I find dating intimidating. Any cues for taking it smoothly?

I think getting to know the person first.

And that's gonna make it more smoothly like if you need help your friend is right there to help you out.

I texted a girl after hooking up but she didn't reply.

If that person doesn't reply I think you shouldn't act desperate.

So you just let it go and wait for her to text you or not wait.

What is the biggest red flag to run from when you start seeing someone new?

The way the person treats the parents is the way that he is eventually going to be treating you.

So if you see that person is caring for the mom, and does a lot for the family. That means that he is great.

That means he is going to treat you like a princess.

But if you see that person has conflicts with the parents and likes to fight, then you should get ready for that.

Because that's most likely gonna happen in your relationship

I think you should include hobbies that you have.

How do you know if someone is interested in you after the first date?

Well if they text you after or they call you and keep wanting to hang out with you, that's how you'll know.

How do I open a conversation with someone that doesn't have a bio?

You can ask and say: why don't you have a bio?

vI'm titled as a best friend by a girl but I want to date her. What are your thoughts?

It might not go the way that you want it to, but tell her.

It's obvious you like her or he likes you.

It's just obvious you can't you can't hide your feelings that well.

So I think maybe that person knows you never, you never know.

How do I get over someone I never even officially dated.

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Lele PonsはTinderユーザーからの16のデートの質問に答えています。 (Lele Pons Answers 16 Dating Questions From Tinder Users)

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