Ladies, the competition is tough today.

And if you ever going to land that affluent man.

It's not only being part of high society that is required from you.

You also need to beat the competition.

How do we beat competition?

It all boils down from being first of all noticed because there is an array of women

out there that cross the paths with men on a daily basis.

But how would you stand out to these men?

How would you be the one who's noticed in their eyes?

Sadly today there is this trend of thinking that more is more.

Thinking that if you apply more makeup.

If you put in more hair extensions.

If you show more skin, then people think that that's going to get you noticed that everyone

in the room will look at you and want you to become their wife or girlfriends.

Well, you hear how silly that sounds, right?

You won't get the appropriate attention when you take this method.

You will only attract guys who are not serious, men who maybe want to have an arrangement

with you or maybe just some temporarily fun.

There are two different types of women that men want to marry or have a serious relationship

with and then you know the type of women who they just want to have for some pleasure seeking.

So I'm going to give you three fundamental ways how you can

first of all, catch the right attention and of course be noticed at the same time.

Number one. Confidence.

How confident you look when you enter a room?

How confident do you look when you just walk around?

How confident do you look when you are just taking a stroll on the street?

How confident do you look when you're sitting at a bar hoping to meet somebody?

Many things you have to ask yourself when it comes to confidence and you also have to

understand that there is a right way of applying confidence.

You don't want to have too much confidence because that can make you appear very masculine

and you might scare people off.

Another way of too much confidence is when you just behave like a diva.

And that's not really the direction where we want to go either.

And total lack of confidence makes you appear like a grey mouse type of thing.

You might also attract the wrong people people who might not have the best agenda or maybe

people who would like to use you and so on.

So you have to understand that confidence is very important.

If you want to be a woman who cares for self where people respect her then you have to

use confidence because that's what's going to give you and show people that you

are a woman of value.

In my online finishing school I talk to

my students all the time about the importance

of image development,

how you really have to have your image all figured out

and very much on point but

that can only be applied and work if you use confidence

because with confidence

people believe that message

You can wear a beautiful dress.

You can wear a beautiful designer bag

but nobody's really going to believe that

you are an affluent woman.

If you don't also carry yourself with that confidence with that belief that you are her,

that you are who you claim you are.

So going back to how men are going to notice you thanks to confidence.

Think about it this way

You enter a room and you're walking confidently, not like arrogantly,

not like you think you're the best and all that.

A little bit of that is good because

that is definitely going to boost your confidence level

but you want to walk into a room and

feel like in the way like you own it but not like you are better than everybody else

because that that type of attitude always pushes people away.

So when you have this confident walk, this confident posture, body movement, way of speech,

everything that has to do really with body language. And add on top of that that you're

there beautifully dressed perfectly groomed and then you walk into this room.

The man will be like

Who is this woman?!

Wow, interesting!

You see, it's not very hard to be noticed, really, if you just use confidence

Even if you look not leveled up at all.

If you walk confidently, if you are confident, people are going to notice you

men are going to notice you.

Men might get so infatuated by you when they see you walking in there, they might say to

themselves: "You know what,

She might not be exactly the tenor that I

wanted my woman to be but wow she fascinates me!

Her confidence just radiates.

I have to speak to her!"

I've seen this happen all the time, ladies.

Confidence is something that is free of charge, Okay.

You don't need to have money to have confidence.

All you need is to start working on it.

Once you have confidence, you can convince people to anything.

Literally, you will own this space.

So make sure you really make use of confidence.

Number two. Be elegant.

There is a lot of beautiful woman out there today.

Beauty is extremely accessible today even in the lower classes.

Surgery, fillers, beauty treatments.

It's not anymore just something for the rich.

It's not something for those who have a good financial situation.

Anyone can actually become more beautiful than how it was back in the days.

So beauty is accessible and that's why competition is tough.

OK.

However I'm going to share with you a secret and that is

there are many beautiful women out there.

There are many sexy women out there but you know what there's not many of today?

That's elegant women. Elegant women are a rarity.

And especially with how the whole kind of Kim Kardashian era.

And you know the current trends right now.

Elegance is not on top of people's minds.

Now it's all about kind of looking casual, and 90s, and all kinds of different trends.

If you on the other hand, you behave elegantly, you dress elegant,

you have an elegant body language,

you are like an entire elegant package,

you are going to stand out.

You don't have to be on the level of the royal house.

You don't have to be Kate Middleton or Meghan Markle

but you have to have some form of elegance

because it is a rarity.

And you'd be surprised how much men in high society appreciate elegance.

And I'm sure they will appreciate because it is a rarity.

So what can you do to be more elegant?

Obviously, the whole theme of my online finishing school

is teaching women elegance.

So if you do want to learn more on that,

go to schoolofaffluence.com

and find out.

You can also watch more of my videos on this channel go and have a browse after this video

because I have plenty of free content that at least can give you a kickstart on how to

level up and how to become more elegant in your everyday life.

So having said that, elegance is important but we still have one more

Number three. Be feminine.

Like I said in the previous point

there is already an abundance of sexy women

sex is everywhere today.

Unfortunately sex sells, which is why everybody in today's society have just taking it and

overusing it.

Sex has become boring at the same time.

We've seen it. We understand. OK.

Been there done that.

Now let's find something more interesting.

So that's a little bit how men think.

Men are not really impressed by sexuality as much as they

were maybe before when it was more restricted.

So they need something that will really catch their eye for attention

plus also I feel like you know dressing sexy it is so unoriginal.

It really does not make a person stand out today.

School of Affluence is about elegance.

It's about being a high value woman.

We would not want to sell ourselves short this way

We wouldn't want to sell our soul just

so that we can get noticed.

We are not desperate for men on this channel.

We want to catch attention of serious men, of men with potential, of men of high caliber,

and such men tend not to seek out the skimpy looking girls.

So what you must do for that reason ladies is focus on femininity.

Again it's a mantra in School of Affluence but this is what hooks a man.

This is what will make a man notice you.

Who do you think men would rather approach in a room?

Do you think that would approach Kim Kardashian?

Or do you think they would approach Monica Bellucci?

Because I think a comparison between these two is very very good.

You will notice the difference between sexy and feminine.

They're more or less similar looking but totally different styles.

And I can promise you, I've heard a million times more men raving about Monica Bellucci.

How attractive, how sexy, how everything she is.

Sexy is of course their way of describing

how she attracts them because of this feminine power that she has.

While how many men do I show say that

"Oh my God. Kim Kardashian.

I love her, she's so sexy, she's so attractive."

I think you know the answer to this one.

Femininity is something that I talk so much

more about in my course.

But I want you to think more how you can implement it in your life.

Think about maybe if you can do it through body language, how you dress, or so and so on.

Seek out some feminine role models perhaps.

By the way if you still haven't watched my video

"6 things that turn rich men off" then I really recommend you to watch it now.

That was it for me, ladies!

Go now and watch my next video.