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  • Every seduction has two elements that you must analyze and understand: first, yourself

  • and what is seductive about you; and second, your target and the actions that will penetrate

  • their defenses and create surrender.”

  • - Robert Greene

  • Seduction starts off with who you are, the way you are expressing your seductive energy.

  • Robert Greene forms nine types of seducers, and in the end, finishing with an Anti-Seducer.

  • Let's learn more about them:

  • 1. Sirens lure their targets with their image and tease.

  • They are packed with sex appeal and they are not afraid to show it.

  • 2. Rakes adore the opposite sex; they are willing to do everything for it.

  • With their infectious desire, they can draw their target into a sensual moment where all

  • time loses any meaning.

  • 3. Ideal lovers can adapt to a targets mood, go along with it, find whats missing in their

  • life and provide that.

  • Making them selves a perfect partner and ideal lover in every situation.

  • 4. Dandies are all about presentation, striking and full of confidence they are people we

  • admire and wish to be.

  • 5. Naturals are very spontaneous and always open; they will take their time and hold nothing

  • back.

  • 6. Coquettes are self-sufficient and extremely narcissistic.

  • Instead of chasing Coquettes let themselves be chased.

  • 7. Charmers are very social creatures; they are very pleasant to be around with.

  • They want and know how to please.

  • 8. Charismatics have a great amount of unusual confidence.

  • They create an illusion that they are born this way, that this comes from inside them.

  • 9. Stars are always striving to put them selves on a pedestal, they are about being an actor

  • of great stories and dramas and always keeping their distance, being untouchable.

  • Anti-seducers are those that have a main attribute of insecurity, and when ts combined with some

  • other negative attribute, it creates a personality that will always repel.

  • They are everything that seducers are not.

  • Before continuing to 24 rule for successful seduction, Greene gives out one important

  • not: Never try to seduce your own type.

  • It's a follow thru of a golden rule: Opposites attract.

  • "What will seduce a person is an effort we expend on their behalf, showing how much we

  • care, how much they are worth."

  • - Robert Greene

  • Time to move to seduction rules.

  • 1. Choosing the right victim.

  • The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic.

  • Never rush into the waiting arms of the first person who seems to like you.

  • That is not seduction but insecurity.

  • 2. Creating a False Sense of Security, Approach Indirectly

  • To move from friendship to love can win success without calling attention to itself as a maneuver.

  • There is nothing more effective in seduction than making the seduced think that they are

  • the ones doing the seducing.

  • 3. Send Mixed Signals

  • What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is

  • often short-lived; in the long run, ambiguity is much more potent.

  • Be hard to figure out.

  • 4. Appear to Be an Object of Desire: Create Triangles

  • You see a man alone, whom nobody talks to for any length of time, and who is wandering

  • around without company; isn't there a kind of self-fulfilling isolation about him?

  • Why is he alone, why is he avoided?

  • There has to be a reason.

  • 5. Create a need, stir anxiety and discontent

  • People are always susceptible to being seduced, because in fact everyone lacks a sense of

  • completeness, feels something missing deep inside.

  • Bring their doubts and anxieties to the surface, and they can be led and lured to follow you.

  • 6. Master the Art of Insinuation

  • There is no known defense against insinuationthe art of planting ideas in people's minds

  • by dropping elusive hints that take root days later, even appearing to them as their own

  • idea.

  • Make everything suggestive.

  • 7. Enter Their Spirit

  • Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt yourself to their moods.

  • In doing so, you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.

  • 8. Create Temptation

  • As the serpent tempted Eve with the promise of forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a

  • desire in your targets that they cannot control.

  • Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that

  • you can lead them toward it.

  • 9. Keep Them In Suspense, what comes next?

  • Behave in a way that leaves them wondering, What are you up to?

  • Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity

  • they will not be able to foresee what comes next.

  • 10. Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion

  • Inflame people's emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities,

  • envelop them in fantasies, sweet words, and promises, and not only will they listen to

  • you, but they will also lose their will to resist you.

  • 11. Pay Attention to Detail

  • The secret is in small things.

  • People mostly miss these things that are dead giveaways of certain feelings, reactions,

  • and likings.

  • 12. Poeticize Your Presence

  • You can be dangerous, naughty, even somewhat vulgar, depending on the tastes of your victim.

  • But never be ordinary or limited.

  • In poetry (as opposed to reality), anything is possible.

  • 13. Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability

  • The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger.

  • If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control

  • yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated.

  • 14. Confuse Desire and RealityThe Perfect Illusion

  • Your task as a seducer is to bring some flesh and blood into someone's fantasy life by embodying

  • a fantasy figure or creating a scenario resembling that person's dreams.

  • 15. Isolate the Victim

  • Separate them from their environment physically, emotionally, and mentally, so they can become

  • further engrossed with you.

  • 16. Prove Yourself

  • Cleverly lead your victim into a crisis, a moment of danger, or indirectly put them in

  • an uncomfortable position, and you can play the rescuer, the gallant knight.

  • 17. Effect a Regression

  • Encourage them to talk about their childhood.

  • Don't take their words at face value, many events will be sugarcoated or dramatized,

  • but pay attention to the tone of voice, things they avoid or deny, or things that make them

  • emotional.

  • Also, notice info about weaknesses and mental makeup.

  • 18. Stir Up the Transgression and Taboo

  • Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely

  • seductive.

  • People yearn to explore their dark side.

  • 19. Use Spiritual Lures

  • Everyone has doubts and insecuritiesabout their body, their self-worth, their sexuality.

  • If your seduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up these doubts and

  • make your targets self-conscious.

  • Instead, lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime

  • and spiritual: a religious experience, a lofty work of art, the occult.

  • 20. Mix Pleasure with Pain

  • Lure them in with focused attention, then change direction, appearing suddenly uninterested.

  • Make them feel guilty and insecure.

  • Even instigate a breakup, subjecting them to emptiness and pain that will give you room

  • to maneuver.

  • 21. Give Them Space to FallThe Pursuer Is Pursued

  • Understand: a person's willpower is directly linked to their libido, their erotic desire.

  • When your victims are passively waiting for you, their erotic level is low.

  • When they turn pursuer, getting involved in the process, brimming with tension and anxiety,

  • the temperature is raised.

  • 22. Use Physical Lures

  • While your cool, nonchalant air is calming their minds and lowering their inhibitions,

  • your glances, voice, and bearingoozing sex and desireare getting under their

  • skin, agitating their senses and raising their temperature.

  • 23. Master the Art of the Bold Move

  • Your bold move should have a theatrical quality.

  • e.g., put out all of the candles but one.

  • Don't let them into the bedroom at first.

  • Remember: you are creating a moment that must stand out from the regularity of daily life.

  • 24. Beware the after effects

  • Stir the pot, even if that means a return to inflicting pain and pulling back.

  • Never rely on your physical charms; even beauty loses its appeal with repeated exposure.

  • Only strategy and effort will fight off inertia

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