Name: 一夫一婦制の説明 (Monogamy, explained)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T07:37:34.000Z
Duration: 18 min 38 s
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We've been hard at work on a new series with Netflix called "Explained."

If you like our YouTube, you're gonna love this.

The reason we're making this show is because of you.

So they let us share the entire first episode right here.

There's two more episodes on Netflix at netflix.com/explained.

You can go right now, they are there for you to watch.

Every Wednesday there is going to be a new story.

From virtually the moment we're born, there's
a story that's preached across cultures

She was even more beautiful than he had thought.

That finding one, true, love is the key to
a fulfilled and happy life.

As an adult, we're forced to reconcile
the messaging on monogamy with one simple

It's kept Jerry Springer on the air for
25 years.

In 2016, 2.2 million U.S. couples got married.

Our quest for – and failure at – monogamy
has caused so much pain and heartbreak.

If it's so hard for humans to be monogamous,
why do most of us, all around the world, make

it one of the most central goals of our lives?

I start asking myself, "Is he right for me?"

If you ask couples why they chose monogamy,
you'll hear one answer again and again.

You look so guilty every time we talk about
this.

It's arranged marriage,
whatever they selected for me, it was good.

We had a study date one night, and that study
break turned into anatomy, I guess.

I've never felt this way about anybody before.

We're still here, 70 years, what do you expect.

25 years I would've gotten out on good behavior.

I would like to think that soul mates are

But monogamy and love aren't the same thing.

We are so psychotically welded to this idea

that monogamy means love, and love means monogamy,

and in the absence of monogamy, there is not
love.

You'll only have sex with this one person,
and most people live in a culture where they're

expected – at some point – to make that
rule a legal contract called marriage.

In many countries, breaking that rule is a
crime.

In the U.S., adultery is illegal in at least
20 states, and although they're rarely enforced,

punishments can range from a $10 fine to three
years in prison.

If you are in a monogamous relationship for
50 years and you fell down once, you cheated

once – the whole relationship was a lie
and a failure.

Most human beings have ambivalent impulses
that it's nice to have someone you can rely

on, but there's also the temptation of novelty.

Why would humans all around the world invent
a rule that's so difficult to follow, and

treat breaking it as such an enormous betrayal?

Should a male have on his clothing so much
as a strand of hair from a female not his

For more than a century, there's been a
culturally accepted explanation.

The standard narrative is the story that everybody
knows: that men want to be free sexually and

spread their seed around the world, and women
want to be very exclusive and particular and

choose a provider, because they're vulnerable
and the children need someone to take care

Women trade sexual fidelity to men in exchange
for goods and services essentially.

In this narrative, there's another reason
why men wouldn't want women to sleep around.

If a baby comes out of a woman's body, there
is no question but that she is genetically

The male has to take the woman's word for
it.

Biologists have known for a very long time
that men are far more inclined to seek multiple

And the reason for that is is really quite
clear.

Now in the first place, remember that the
male sperm cells are being produced all the

While only one egg cell is produced each month.

There's a very good – and I don't mean ethically
good – but very understandable evolutionary

payoff for males as being randy bastards.

But there's one big issue with that explanation
– of promiscuous, possessive men and demure

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