clients lately that I felt like

maybe this is some kind of guidence

from the universe some synchronicity that I need to be paying attention to

so I decided that I would talk to you guys about it

So here's the thing we live two realities

we live the reality that we actually are

perceiving and observing and

we live a reality in our head or we are trying to live a really in our head

and there's a discrepancy between

the two realities the reality in her head it saying

by 29 you should be married and had 2.5 kid

by 32 you are making six figures and

by 34 you thought was so we have this

map in her head that

is same did through how you life should be and then we have

the reality a friend about and time

that I reality engine deathmatch

and that's what and happiness occurs because we feel that we should

be doing certain things social media doesn't help either

because we see our friend you know she went to Europe and she doing so well

with her big tits oh my god she got promoted

and he just do you know he is doing a maybe have happily married and

and we just start thinking about where we should be

well we should be doing and we get caught up by this

should I should I should I shouldn't that

we forget to just take the steps forward

to get there how do we do that then everything is the right now detain

and I knew how to do that I would have already done it

this isn't going to work but this is how it worked I want you

to grab a pen and a few the paper and I want you to write down

who you want to be and not so much what you want to have a guy when he didn't

mansion with his amazing

luxury car but maybe the person who you have to be

to have some of those things who do you have to be to

have the fit body who do you have to be to

to be in a happy marriage who do you have to be to

get that promotion whatever it is think about

who you have to be and I want you to write down

what kind of choices this person makes what kind of discipline they have

I want you to

really get to know this person because this person is going to be an extended

version of you

the upgraded version of you whatever you want to call that person

and once you have that written down

I want to throw it away detach from not forget about that

I just want to have been that in the back of your mind I want you to throw it away but don't want you to cling on to

being that person that is just

kinda a guidance that is what we are aiming for

then I want you to come back to the present moment come back to your life

where you are now

and I want to do in every single

moment decide

what kind of choice do I have to make in this moment

to become that person that I want to be so

say you want to be the fit mom or say you want to

be financially secure you're going to be presented

with the moment where you going to be tempted to spend you're going to be tempted

have to be the cheesecake and in that moment

decide who do I want to be?

what kind of a choice to I had to make right now

to get to get to be that person

I want you to be really honest with yourself just be completely honest and

say I know that this is something that sounds appealing so I am not going to b

take me to remind me

coming to do it or I am i doing or whatever it is you had to not to do it or I am going to do it or whatever it is you decide to do

but you have to do this moment by moment you have to do it

each and every single day you have to really decide you can't let yourself

go

on auto pilot and say okay watch this video

and just try to do it when you remember you really have to step into this role

and every second decide because every tiny little choice

makes up a lifetime

and where you are today is just as sum

of the choices that you made in the past

it is in these tiny little moments that make

a complete lifetime and these tiny little moments, they matter pay

attention to them

and the next thing that I want to do

is to hit like on this video if you felt inspired in anyway

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in the next video bye

todays theme

thought that was lizard on me

I have been spending a lot of time at the beach

yeah black people tan

we lose to that golden

complexion like so much about

our skin