Name: なりたい自分になる方法 (How to become the person you want to be)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T06:01:10.000Z
Duration: 5 min 56 s
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Hello! Today's topic is a common theme that I've been seeing with my coaching

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from the universe some synchronicity that I need to be paying attention to

so I decided that I would talk to you guys about it

So here's the thing we live two realities

we live a reality in our head or we are trying to live a really  in our head

the two realities the reality in her head it saying

by 29 you should be married and had 2.5 kid

is same did through how you life should be and then we have

and that's what and happiness occurs because we feel that we should

be doing certain things social media doesn't help either

because we see our friend you know she went to Europe and she doing so well

with her big tits oh my god she got promoted

and he just do you know he is doing a maybe have happily married and

and we just start thinking about where we should be

well we should be doing and we get caught up by this

should I should I should I shouldn't that

to get there how do we do that then everything is the right now detain

and I knew how to do that I would have already done it

this isn't going to work but this is how it worked I want you

to grab a pen and a few the paper and I want you to write down

who you want to be and not so much what you want to have a guy when he didn't

luxury car but maybe the person who you have to be

to have some of those things who do you have to be to

have the fit body who do you have to be to

to be in a happy marriage who do you have to be to

get that promotion whatever it is think about

who you have to be and I want you to write down

what kind of choices this person makes what kind of discipline they have

really get to know this person because this person is going to be an extended

the upgraded version of you whatever you want to call that person

I want to throw it away detach from not forget about that

I just want to have been that in the back of your mind I want you to throw it away but don't want you to cling on to

kinda a guidance that is what we are aiming for

then I want you to come back to the present moment come back to your life

what kind of choice do I have to make in this moment

to become that person that I want to be so

say you want to be the fit mom or say you want to

be financially secure you're going to be presented

with the moment where you going to be tempted to spend you're going to be tempted

have to be the cheesecake and in that moment

what kind of a choice to I had to make right now

I want you to be really honest with yourself just be completely honest and

say I know that this is something that sounds appealing so I am not going to b

coming to do it or I am i doing or whatever it is you had to not to do it or I am going to do it or whatever it is you decide to do

but you have to do this moment by moment you have to do it

each and every single day you have to really decide you can't let yourself

on auto pilot and say okay watch this video

and just try to do it when you remember you really have to step into this role

and every second decide because every tiny little choice

it is in these tiny little moments that make

a complete lifetime and these tiny little moments, they matter pay

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