Name: 女性を誘う6つの方法（6 Ways to Flirt with Women）
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Matt: Have you ever been talking to a girl but it seems a little too nice and friendly

and you end up in the friend zone well my friend it's time to step up your

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flirting game so that she sees you as a potential lover instead of just another

nice guy because flirting is one of the most

important attraction skills so watch closely and take some good notes my name

is matt artisan from the attractive man and this is six ways to flirt with a

we've done all the testing we know what works now most guys think that you have

to spend lots of money on the girl buy lots of flowers and gifts to spend weeks

and weeks courting her to get the girl that you really want but the reality is

that women only care about how you make them feel and one of the best ways to

make her feel romantic feelings without spending lots of time and lots and lots

of money on her is through flirting the dictionary defines flirting as behaving

as though attracted to or trying to attract someone but for amusment rather

than with serious intentions and this is great because flirting is basically just

showing your interest in her in a fun covert manner it's not telling her how

much you like her and how much you're in love with her and telling him how

beautiful she is and showering her with compliments that's too direct and that

will usually push her away and feel a little creepy instead do it more subtly

and more indirectly and playfully with some of the ways that I'm about to show

you now without further ado here's my countdown to my six favorite ways to

flirt with a girl number 6 is teasing which is poking fun of her but with

positive intention it's not meant to make her feel bad it's not meant to be

malicious a lot of guys do this wrong because they see the woman as being

higher status and more value than him he sees himself down here so he wants to

make fun of her tease her and neg her and make her feel bad and bring her down

basically show her I'm cooler than you you're down here but Neath me never do

that hey it doesn't work that well a high-value woman who is secure in

herself is gonna see right past that and she's just gonna dismiss you move on to

somebody else instead be an awesome guy be up here be a 10 see yourself as a 10

and bring people up to your level bring people up to your status instead of

trying to put them down and the key is that it's in the

holman it's not some pre-planned line that you intend to say it's just

something she does you make fun of her mannerisms or maybe she's walking and

she stumbles and you don't tell her she's such a dork and you can't take her

anywhere and you're embarrassed by her in that type of negative tonality

it's a playful tonality you tease her and say oh I can't take you anywhere or

oh you're such a klutz the point is that it's all about the vibe that you're

having fun and just enjoying the experience it's how you would treat your

friends right your close friends you tease each other about certain things

which creates a sense of rapport when you do it to a woman that you meet for

the first time because we usually only tease people that we feel very

comfortable with so if you tease her in the right way she will feel that rapport

and feel closeness to you it's like you're part of her inner circle so it's

more about the nonverbal than the actual specific words you say for example you

can tease her about almost anything just the way she says something maybe she

says like a lot and you accuse her of being a valley girl again it shouldn't

be like oh you're a valley girl I could never date you it should be like oh my

god you're such a valley girl do you listen to yourself oh my god this is

never gonna work out I'm nervous about this because I'm no I know I can't do

this oh okay you can and here's a few other examples see this is why we can't

have nice things are you just trying to get in my pants

you're so bad versus are you just trying to get in my pants number five is role

reversal which is great because it flips the script the traditional dating frame

is courting the man is chasing the woman so instead you just flip that around and

accuse her of trying to get into your pants and accuse her of trying to seduce

you you might say stop seducing me with your eyes young lady I see what you're

doing so bad or you might misinterpret something she says maybe she says she's

gonna go home and go to bed and you turn that into

invitation I think I'm gonna go to bed i can't go to bed with you that easily i

mean you need to buy me a drink first or something you can also accuse her for

you escalating so blame her for being the one that's causing you to make the

moves on her so you could say something like if you look at me again like that

i'm gonna be forced to kiss you remember it's all in the delivery in the tonality

saying if you look at me again like that i'm gonna be forced to kiss you stop

stop looking at me like that is not flirting

number four is role playing this one is awesome because it creates this context

in this frame of a fantasy world which means you can flirt with her you can

tell her how much you are in love with her even but it's just a joke it's not

real because it's a role play for example if you roleplay that you're

getting married or that you're role-playing that your boyfriend and

girlfriend or it's like one of those epic romances where you're so in love

then she could go to the bathroom and you could say darling don't leave me

you're gonna be gone for so long what am I gonna do I know that sounds a little

cheesy but it's fun it's playful it's so different than what other guys would do

in the bar whether just let her so how's your night going you come here often

what do you do for work and in a marriage role play which is one of my

favorites you can get away with talking about so much talk about your future

relationships where you would travel together painting these pictures in her

mind of you and her together you know what I like you we're so gonna get

married instead of having a long engagement we should just find my friend

actually it's right over there he's an ordained minister come on and you can

also talk about very risque things because you're a married couple now in

fact a few times I've taken my dates into adult bookstores after we've done

this marriage roleplay and I'm just like come on honey we need to spice up our

romance and I start whipping her with some of the whips and pick out some toys

for her and it's really fun and really ramps things up to the next level

another roleplay I like is the mini relationship where you just have like a

five minute rule a ship with a girl as boyfriend and

girlfriend I have a fear of commitment so we can just do this for five minutes

you could be my girl five minutes that's all I can commit to it creates that

sense of closeness that you're in a relationship right away but it takes

away the pressure because you're gonna break up in five minutes in fact I use

this as an opener going up to girls and saying hey can I be your boyfriend or

will you be my girlfriend and if you want to know how well it worked it

actually quite surprised me check out the video the links to the videos I'll

put them down in the description by the way remember if you haven't downloaded

my free conversation cheat sheet that's packed with other flirty examples make

sure to download that right now there's a link down in the description for that

as well next is touching which is a great way to

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