How hard it is for others?

Like like life life is really really short and I think that we don't value and appreciate you know our freedoms

and our opportunities

in our life

There are gonna always be obstacles

You're gonna have to either go around them go over them or go right through them, but you can't stop going

It's a hopeless feeling and you surround it around a bunch of hopelessness you

Have to be crazy and

Believing what your goal in your passion is because when something is crazy, even though it's crazy

You still do it, right? You know what I mean? And so that's what you have to become you have to become

Insane right so you could be smarter than me, but you were never gonna outwork the ever like for real

They are no quick quick answers to big problems like there just aren't it?

In life that things will go bad and

Things are going to go bad. This is not the first or the last time that's gonna happen

It's gonna keep happening. And that's just how life is

You'll be past this and you'll be okay and there is nothing for you to worry about here

We can be as human beings as people who are always right for the world or we can be just right for ourselves, right?

So we can just be honest about ourselves or we can put a display for the world

Nothing wrong with putting display of to the world. That's what gives you joy

But just be honest about videos because it's eventually it's all boils down to you and your story

It's not about more it's always about less it's only thin time you realize what less it is

Fear is a is a figment of our imagination right fear is created because of expectations right and I

learned this process early on is that every time I would get scared I would usually be scared because I have some

Future I have imagined there is something in the future that I think

Will happen because I will do this right now is why I'm scared of doing this, right?

You're about to jump off a plane. You think you're going to die

You don't consider you have a parachute or a person that is jumping with you, right? So

That's what you're scared of is why you want jump off a plane is because you think you will die

so I had

Firstly once you have an expectation of yourself, and you say hey, I don't need to have this expectation

I'm just living life as a play. It's a game. It's music. It's it's fun joy

I don't have an expectation of a particular outcome

Its it doesn't mean I'm discounting myself like that people can get confused with that like it's not that I'm saying

Oh

I don't want to be

Even more impactful in the world or a better version or more honest version of myself that journey will still continue

I just don't have that expectation. I'm not gonna be sad if that doesn't happen one day - chase. Let's enjoy the chase

Why do we have to kill ourselves in the if we don't get it? The chase is supposed to be fun

Life is flowing you can choose to change in this moment

You can choose to change it three years from now or 30 years from now and it will change the day you want to change

It right now once you know that you understand that goals can be timeless

Now the second part of that is if life is going to flow means on every moment basis

It's going to be different in a way, right? It's almost like

It's like a heartbeat or a river or music changes by the note, right? It's just changing all the time right this moment

It's different right energy changes our way. We react to things change although things change all the time

And if that's the case, what's the one thing that can define us or help us stay in a place of joy, right?

Because if life is gonna be up and down things will change and things will go bad and things will go right

There has to be something that becomes our anchor point. It can't always be that goal, which is so

arbitrary anyways

So what is it that can help us always be in that?

grounding state and be in a place of joy and being that floating state all the time to be able to go I'm pumped about

This I'm pumped about this moment doesn't matter how it shows up

I'm pumped about this right and that got me to the dialogue of saying

Maybe I need to find something that I can anchor into at all times things that actually give me joy all the time

Right, and that's what your values are your values are

Usually already with you. You just have not bringing awareness to them. It's the way you operate

You have the potential today to be special

Every second that passes now is the opportunity to succeed you

can

be

You can be so much more

Success never stop never stops to breathe. It never takes the day off never looks to take a break

Forget the things you can't control

Look for the moments

You can't control use the times you can't control

Use the times you can control we need to become someone and you need to become your future

You need to handle your power and feel your potential

You got to feel this pain to progress to change to feel fulfilled to feel satisfaction

This is where everything can and trust me it all will fall into place

succeed into something worthy

something with the power to change to adapt adapt into the person you've always wanted to be

You have this opportunity today to be something with purpose now pay attention to every detail

Take every day

Like it's a brand new spankin opportunity take every risk as if it's a stepping stone into the future

You're carving out for yourself because you have control

you have the control to change in the control to improve the action and

Improvement to become the boundaries that have always held you back

You have always had the strength to push past these boundaries to move past

This you need to know your power

It all takes resilience resilience to push past any

Boundary and push through every risk every hardship every wrong turn

Right now right here is an open door

The door that puts you on the path towards success

You have control you have control over your future a future fueled by your success

Constructed by your progress it all begins right here and it all starts right now

Don't waste one more minute sitting and thinking I want you to spend your next minute acting

Today is your day to tell your story to speak your mind

To tell the truth about your future to speak about the power

you've always had the potential you've always had this is how you

Succeed you will be your power

You have this power

Communicate your problems communicate the power you know that you have this is the beginning of your power the start of your progress

It doesn't get any easier. You just get stronger

If you want to change don't expect your life to stay the same

Expect it to get harder expect it to actually get really really tough tougher than you can even imagine right now

And this is where you can move past the boundaries that used to hold you back

Used to hold you by the neck. Now, you can move towards the fulfillment

That's your future and this you see this this is where you can finally feel the satisfaction of your work

This is when you finally get to feel that success

This is where your progress can be kick-started

Accelerate your life into your direction. Your journey is the power you've earned

The expectation you've built can be your reality

Reality where you live you breathe you walk you succeed

Now is it the time to wait now isn't the time to waste let this be the power that takes you towards your success

This is the opportunity you've earned

This is the potential you've always had now is the time for you to step up

Stand out and become the person you need to become

Your future is in your hands and this is what sets your life up to be worth the potential that you deserve

Your power is and always has been the thing that's gonna take you towards the life that you have earned

You have and you always will have this this potential to improve

This potential to adapt and this potential to change

This is what you've been working for

Go on and receive that

This is your journey. This is your destiny and either you wander aimlessly or you grab the wheel and take control of the ship

Either you head in the direction you want to go or you go in no direction at all

Most people allow life to happen to them

Their time runs like a sands Eimer life is happening to them

It isn't happening for them make life work for you

Make your time work for you. Do not allow your time to empty each day without achieving anything

Go into the world today and spend your time wisely make small wins

Every day that will lead you down the path to success

Motivation get you started but habit going

Motivation is great. It is like a coffee in the morning it gets the engine going and get you moving

But it is a habit that will develop your success is not an option

It's either I will or I won't I can I know I can

but I will or I won't you know and

That's the thing and in some cases

You may try your hardest and you just don't win or you don't pass a test or you don't succeed. That's part of life

Understanding, it's gonna take hard work discipline and and learning how to work with other people in order to get to the next level

The first rule is to love and respect everybody you come in contact with you're not going to agree with them

You're not gonna even know like them on some occasions, but you love them and you respect them

Number two is to be your best

You know if your best is a C on the test, even if it's D or F on the test

I would you know, you can never be disappointed if you know you gave it your all and

then

You know number three is we don't use the word can't

You know, it's not in our vocabulary. I was told my entire life. You'll never do this. You'll never do that

You can't do this you it's impossible for you to do that

when you tell somebody what they can do for some people that drives them, you know, because you know

I gonna tell me what I can or cannot do

But for other people when you tell them all you'll never be able to do that like that

That could be the breaking straw, you know in that back for that person. That's their spirit to actually go out and succeed

So I never tell my kids

If they come to me and they may have the most outrageous idea. I'll say all right, cool

Let's figure out how we're gonna do it. I never said I mean you can't doing that

As a work ethic you got to be passionate about whatever it is that you're gonna do whether it be

You know an artist

entertainer sports figure political like whatever it is should you decide to do in life you have to have

Any extreme work ethic? You gotta be willing to do stuff other people aren't willing to do

You have to have respect

The first thing I've taught my kids when they can understand it was how to shake somebody's hand

If you're if your agenda is to help make an impact on people's lives

And it shouldn't matter if your name's at the top of the banner. It shouldn't matter if you know your your gifts have certain

Name tags or whatever. However you want to do it

I'm super competitive. So

Nobody's gonna tell me what I can't do. I mean somebody don't even I can't sing but don't tell me I can't sing

So I'm gonna give you my best thing it possible. It's not that I can't sing

it's just I don't sing well, but you know I'm saying so it's like

For me. I always had a drive to

like

Not prove people wrong, but to prove gods, right? You know, God said he has great plans for me

So my grandmother passed away from

breast cancer in 1995

I was going to the hospice the woman that was her roommate per se

was very

She's from South you know, and she was very racist, you know, every time I come in the room she'd say

Oh, well that goes up boy. I had to do everything I could she you know, I

Knew I had grown because I didn't respond the way I probably should was one has she caught me a couple years earlier?

But

You know my grandmother after a few weeks my grandmother, you know, she reached over and pulled grab my arm

And she was like, you know, if I if I if I have to happen to die before

she does I want you to come back and see her and

I'm like

No, it's just not my girl mother talking right now

and so I you know

it should end up happening like three weeks after my grandmother said that my grandmother passed away and so my my grandmother I

Saw something at a time that I didn't really understand why she was doing it

but I went back and I go into this room and the lady's like I

Must sits up on her seat and she's just started bawling crying and this is the racist lady. Yes

And then she's like, I'm I'm so glad I got a chance to see you again

I thought I'd never see you again. You know, I apologize for how I treated you

You know, I've gone to church I've done so many things, you know in church. I've served the homeless, etc, etc