Name: アラン・ドゥ・ボットン-今は大丈夫じゃないと思ってもいいんだよ (Alain de Botton- It's OK to Feel NOT OK Right Now)
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T10:58:49.000Z
Duration: 14 min 14 s
Description: VoiceTubeの動画で発音を聞きながら英語表現を覚えよう！学べる英語：

OUR GUEST IS A BESTSELLING AUTHOR, PHILOSOPHER, AND THE

FOUNDER AND CHAIRMAN OF 'THE SCHOOL OF LIFE.'

HE'S SOMEONE WHO, WHENEVER I LISTEN TO HIM, HE MAKES ME THINK

ABOUT THE WORLD DIFFERENTLY AND HE'S HERE FROM HIS HOME IN THE

>> .I HAD SURGERY ON MY LIE LAST WEEK WHERE I HAD TO LIE WITH

FLANNEL ON MY EYE LAST WEEK AND I THINK I'VE LISTENED TO EVERY

RECORDED PIECE OF PODCASTRY YOU'VE DONE OVER THE LAST SIX OR

YOUR VOICE HAS BEEN RATTLING AROUND MY HEAD.

>> I FOUND IT DEEPLY -- T SENT YOU BACK TO REAL ILL

WHAT I FOUND INCREDIBLE WHEN WE TALKED BEFORE THAT THE NEWS IS

SO SCARY A LOT OF THE TIME, EVERYTHING WE'RE HEARING IS

SCARY, BUT YOU ACTUALLY HAVE QUITE AN OPTIMISTIC TAKE ON WHAT

CAN YOU EXPLAIN THAT OPTIMISM AND WHY IT'S THERE?

>> LOOK, YOU KNOW, IN A WAY, IT'S A SILVER LINING RATHER THAN

I THINK ONE OF THE GREAT THINGS ABOUT THIS TIME IS WE ARE

MOST OF TIME WE ARE SO BUSY, BUT ALSO WE HAVE SUCH A FRONT.

ALL OF US PRETENDING TO BE THIS AND THAT, AND AT THIS TIME, I'M

I'VE HAD SO MANY CONVERSATIONS WITH PEOPLE WHO WERE JUST ABLE

BE HUMAN IN A WAY THAT VERY OFTEN THEY'RE NOT THE REST OF

YOU KNOW, WHEN A FRIEND CALLS YOU UP AND THEY SAY HOW ARE YOU

DOING, IF YOU'RE ABLE TO JUST TAKE THEM INTO THE REALITY OF

YOUR LIFE, THAT IS SUCH A PRESENT THAT YOU'RE GIVING THEM

BECAUSE SO MANY OF US THINK I'M UNUSUAL, I'M SO STRANGE, OTHER

PEOPLE ARE ALL HAVING A GREAT LIFE, THEY'RE HAVING A GREAT

THIS IS A TIME WHEN THERE'S NO MORE FOMO, THERE'S NO FEAR OF

IT'S ALL OF US FRAGILE, SUFFERING, VULNERABLE HUMANS

TRYING TO HOLD IT TOGETHER WITH, YOU KNOW, SOMETIMES FRIGHTENING

MOMENTS, AND IN A WAY, YOU KNOW, THE KIND OF PRETENSES OF THE

NORMAL WORLD THAT WE'VE PUT UP AND SUFFER FROM HAVE KIND OF

ALSO A LOT OF PEOPLE SAY TO ME THINGS LIKE I'M FEELING ANXIOUS,

AND I ALWAYS SAY, IF YOU REALLY WANT TO CALM SOMETHING DOWN,

DON'T ALWAYS STRESS EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE GREAT AND

LOOK AT SOME OF THE DARKNESS IN THE FACE.

YOU KNOW, THE STOIC PHILOSOPHERS OF ANCIENT GREECE AND ROME WERE

FANTASTIC BECAUSE RATHER THAN SAYING THE BAD STUFF WON'T

HAPPEN, THEY CHOSE A DIFFERENT VIEW -- LOOK AT THE BAD STUFF

AND SEE THAT IT CAN ACTUALLY BE SURVIVED.

WE ARE ALL OF US MUCH STRONGER THAN WE THINK.

WE ALWAYS THINK, IMAGINE IF I COULDN'T GO OUT, IMAGINE IF THIS

WE'RE IN THE MIDDLE OF A CRISIS AND BROADLY SPEAKING, TOUCH

AND EVEN IF WE'RE NOT COPING, NOT COPING'S OKAY.

SO IT WILL MAKE US STRONGER BY REVEALING WE DON'T HAVE TO BE

THESE ARE NOT PERFECT DAYS BUT STILL WE'RE OKAY.

>> James: I THINK THAT'S A GOOD THING THE NOTION OF

EVERYTHING DOESN'T HAVE TO BE OKAY AND IT'S OKAY TO

ACKNOWLEDGE THAT BECAUSE YOU SAID SOMETHING A COUPLE OF WEEKS

AGO ON SOMETHING I HEARD YOU DO BUT YOU SAID THAT THE BRAVE FACE

COULD BE THE BIGGEST VILLAIN OF THIS, THE NOTION OF PUTTING ON A

>> YOU KNOW, THE BRAVE FACE HAS ALWAYS BEEN A PROBLEM.

MEN HAVE HAD IT WORSE THAN WOMEN IN THIS REGARD.

IT'S ALL THIS IDEA THAT, IN ORDER TO BE A DECENT HUMAN

BEING, YOU HAVE TO BE AN UNAFRAID HUMAN BEING.

SO MOST OF US FEEL SO WEIRD BECAUSE WE HAVE ACCESS TO OUR

WE CAN ONLY GUESS WHAT'S GOING ON FROM OUTSIDE OTHER PEOPLE'S

MINDS FROM WHAT THEY TELL US AND GENERALLY THEY EDIT THE

A LOT OF US THINK WE'RE WEIRD BECAUSE WHAT'S GOING ON IN MY

HEAD DOESN'T SEEM TO ECHO WHAT'S GOING ON IN SOMEBODY ELSE'S

ALL OF US EXPERIENCE MANY OF THE SAME THINGS.

WE'RE FULL OF SELF-DOUBT, REGRET, SHAME, BUT ALSO WE HAVE

WE WANT TO BE GENEROUS TOWARDS OTHER PEOPLE.

JUST ACTUALLY LIFE IS STRANGER THAN WE'RE ALLOWED TO ADMIT THAT

IT IS, AND I THINK GREAT WORKS OF ART, GREAT WORKS OF COMEDY,

GREAT SONGS, THEY'RE ALWAYS ABLE TO STRETCH OUR IDEA OF WHAT IS

NORMAL, AND THAT'S WHY WE APPRECIATE THEM.

THEY'RE ABLE TO SHOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE A PARENT TO BE IN

LOVE, TO GO ON A JOURNEY AND THEY GIVE US A REAL PICTURE.

SO OFTEN WE LIVE INSIDE THESE VERY EDIT IMAGES.

I THINK LET'S USE THE CRISIS TO BE MORE HONEST ABOUT WHAT IT'S

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アラン・ドゥ・ボットン-今は大丈夫じゃないと思ってもいいんだよ (Alain de Botton- It's OK to Feel NOT OK Right Now)

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