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  • Hello, everyone.

  • Welcome.

  • Welcome to the first.

  • That excuse.

  • It's great here.

  • And it happens that allow this one off.

  • All yours will be speaking here, but 42 year school.

  • And I think the next team, it could be first here.

  • Just let us be less anxious thinking that you've sent old guy talk so bad.

  • So people us?

  • No.

  • Yeah, I know be perfect today, but I think, uh, the message which I want to share with you are very important.

  • And it is much more than okay.

  • I would like to start with something be share.

  • Oh, and the first thing is, who do you weigh?

  • All love our city.

  • I agree.

  • Way.

  • Oh, love our country.

  • Yes.

  • If so, it's just natural to assume that we all love of a planet.

  • Okay, but wait.

  • Is it the same sinking?

  • We all love the same country we own love?

  • Is it the same planet we think we love and passed by the garbage way?

  • See all the streets.

  • Okay.

  • Just like reason environment we leave, we too often make rubbish off our souls.

  • We couldn't lot off percent.

  • And you jealous green and fear into our souls.

  • Oh, it is much like patient nose up who was sent to my office after two years off trying to get cracking after your marriage.

  • And your gynecologist told us that the body is and something is wrong is your and she needs to see.

  • So she came.

  • And during our clinical interview, it soon became quite obvious that the who knows I was raised in an environment where violence against women was a normal from your father from the grandfather and brothers.

  • And, uh, despite as she knows, told me, despite over no harm in being very kind and loving person, she kept emotional distance between you and him.

  • Okay, way.

  • Think about this rubbish in our.

  • So if we think about producing so much rubbish and living in our planet, is there any solution for these?

  • Have you heard that Sweden has run out?

  • It's our garbage and now import garbage from other countries.

  • So Sweden based toe other countries just that garnished with a country in order to produce cheap and clean and for your economy and blood Looking to the Swedish example, it is normal to assume that there's a similar approach could be used for human beings, human soul.

  • It seems to be hopeless and common sense as well done, Haman says, is not so cover.

  • Let me explain.

  • So, with a simple quest, they wouldn't buy My dear professor Shane Frederick.

  • And the question to you, old guys, please have a look.

  • And the question is, I'm back.

  • A baseball bat on the bowl cost $1.10 together.

  • Even the back costs $1 more than the ball.

  • How much does it cost?

  • Oh, first answer A who is for a We just raise your hands because it was the light.

  • Okay, who is a B?

  • Okay, people who is full c?

  • Just one person who is 40 two people.

  • So 25 maybe 40% more for a 40% works for B and around 10% for C and B And let's have a look to the correct answer be goes out, See, goes out on DDE Hey, goes up, It means is that 60% very bright people.

  • So common sense is not so what five cents?

  • Because the back cost $1.5 Afterwards, you calculate it and make sure that I'm not wrong so and, uh, Shane Freddie, who chose these queens?

  • Thousands people, students from universities off.

  • I wanna leave including Harvard, Princeton and M I t.

  • And more than 50% off them said OK, wrong answers.

  • So please don't make it too personal.

  • Even Harvard and Princeton, more than 50% student gave your old house.

  • Is it something?

  • But we need to understand how we are intelligent, but the make such stays.

  • Okay, uh, there is one genius leaving sometimes in the US Sometimes he's a cannibal on give on a noble prize in economy in 2002 or some off his fundamental work on behavioral economy on dhe, he explored this issue and found out.

  • So research that people have two systems off singing the 1st 1 is that and irrational.

  • And the second is slow, meaning fast and irrational.

  • It means that people and all of us in most of the case, it's 10 to give answers.

  • We first we should come to our mind, and it is how we are building.

  • I want prey is a lazy and it tries to, uh, you go easiest and we kissed answer to any problem to any question and in the 50% of the cases even more, it is wrong answer.

  • So, uh, it is Oh, also irrational.

  • And so the second system is a slow, which means and it is the same brain, but it takes time to consider what is happening.

  • What do they mean?

  • What does it mean to me why this is happening?

  • So it takes time and very soft in reaction.

  • And, uh, this, uh Then you, uh, animals.

  • Oh, sinking fast.

  • And still, I recommend everyone to read it if you No.

  • Alright.

  • Already.

  • So, uh, Professor Kellerman say that the opposable answer in terms to mind immediately I was writing It requires hard work.

  • Insistent idea that it is truly just to I am correct.

  • Makes it difficult to check their logic.

  • And most do not take the trouble to see me through the problem.

  • It is off.

  • It is.

  • But all these concepts are quite difficult to explain to my patients.

  • So that's why I use a metaphor to explain this ability Really difficult concept.

  • And my favorite metaphor is about two bowls, maybe, you know, uh, what have you done?

  • Five year old boy comes to his father and asks.

  • I dreamed a grand and I saw a man, these two fools inside him white and black.

  • Is it true that everyone has two balls inside?

  • And these red posit it was a wedding?

  • Wonderful, very experienced.

  • And he took some time to see about and calmly replied, Yes, you there are two, both inside us.

  • Is it?

  • Four is a symbol off you'll and, uh, his food is the Sandman Regret impulsivity, green self beating you and your and Eagle and they're white.

  • Oh, enjoys having love being in peace Home loves empathy, General through compassion and faith and grand listening disease.

  • Answer.

  • Made a second wish.

  • Always he's fine and that you were just opens the one whom you most interestingly in maybe 80% off cases, which I see with my patients.

  • When I asked this question were saying, Well, we in 80% of the cases people say why?

  • Because they won't white way.

  • But it is not true.

  • It is full.

  • We feel, well, we and in most cases in many cases, too much to all.

  • We feed our black for we say that I can't I can't do this.

  • I can forgive him I turned forgetting I can go swim.

  • I can't do it Sounds even part of and all these sorts feed's up is that evil black folk in a bus that irrational off my mind in order to read all these black and to control it, we need to No, we need to understand several fundamental things.

  • And the first is love.

  • Well, doesn't mean.

  • And, according to a whole German psychoanalyst, addict from love is the active concern for care full up for life and that growth off the object we love.

  • If the object off other love us myself, Why I may a garbage can off my heart if I love myself, why I put so many jack food in my stomach.

  • If I allow myself why I want to and my life goes someone but me.

  • Next thing we need to understand these forgiveness and forgiveness is decision for possible decision to free oneself from coast, huh?

  • It is not because someone who burned me asked.

  • Oh apologized for his wrong doing.

  • Oh, he or she deserves apology.

  • It is because I love myself, says Fine.

  • I felt it's also a big stays with skin, but I'm free over.

  • That's why I forgive you.

  • Because I just love myself and I actively change for my life.

  • And I actively care for my truth and way.

  • Forgive someone because we are sang for for that experience may be very painful experience we have gone through because we see now differently about these What happened to us?

  • Maybe tense.

  • Maybe 20 years ago in my child, I Rabelais myself.

  • Bye Look from And that's a point to my experience.

  • Like my patient, you know that she understood that because off the feel and hopefulness she had inherited from my mother, she didn't.

  • I want to leave the same life as her mother did, but investment life.

  • And, uh, she didn't leave that life.

  • She didn't want to few that pain, which he's our brother, but instead off letting letting it go she has chosen a different hey for herself.

  • She started suffering from life result your kids and she probably did her body two get pregnant.

  • And when she understood these things, she shared inside her inside me and said, Dr, I actually that girl's disease just because someone needs to stand up and stop this violence in my family and I think it should be me.

  • It was still inside, and, uh, these hell experience very pay from painful experience process.

  • So second system off scene gave you brave it no gave you love to talk to her father and brothers, bizarre, blaming and eventually get them.

  • Stop beating, said Damon.

  • And being respectful, I do their wives and daughters and no, two days ago, Who knows this?

  • Hand me a picture off help case?

  • No, she has two kids.

  • Is that older daughter, As is a big and, uh, hello younger brother Jennifer.

  • She transformed her family.

  • She became much more clothes of his husband and becoming a muzzle.

  • All these sweetest kids became a natural outcome.

  • Also, his transformation.

  • My message to you, my friends, he's dead.

  • If What's that?

  • Circumstances or some event in your life?

  • I didn't give you some positive message and neighboring message empowering message.

  • Then you probably didn't make the right conclusions yet.

  • And my wish to you, all my friends Toby Green, like Sweden to be happy like we know that.

Hello, everyone.

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内なる力を解き放つ|アジズベク・ボルタエフ|[email protected] (Unleashing the power within | Azizbek Boltaev | [email protected])

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