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  • we are all in sick, off happiness and on our way to happiness.

  • Money, they play a role we like.

  • We don't not.

  • They are influencing our life and our decisions in life.

  • But, uh, what are the roots?

  • You know, some people, they want money and success.

  • Or maybe all of us, we want money and success, some people to get it.

  • So people who don't why why is that?

  • We all make much in school, but when we can't money, we count them different.

  • So I can, with some months, that's for you Today I was working in a bank for seven years already when something happened in three shape the idea off her money richness, success.

  • Up till then, I thought, like others have told me have teached me that being a successful and being happy means to have money to have a big house, you know, to have a nice car of money for vacations.

  • All this stuff.

  • So I was working since I was 18 and I was believing this one day something happened and reshaped my idea off this I was having a customer in front of me who was a shepherd.

  • He was traveling more than 200 kilometers away from the city.

  • He was coming in a market near the bank and he was selling his Ches.

  • What?

  • He was selling upto the hull today.

  • He was coming to the bank and he was sharing all the money in four different accounts.

  • 25% in each.

  • Why?

  • He was having three daughters to marry.

  • And one account it does for him when he would be old, not work anymore.

  • Quite wise in his Bach.

  • It was not ex customer.

  • It was a customer incorporate past summer, which means he was having his company's account with the bank.

  • He came in front of me and the he said, I want an investment loan.

  • Okay, um, I had to make some calculations.

  • So this is why I was looking my left hand where it was the Telerate.

  • Yeah.

  • To see if it's cloudy.

  • How much time I have?

  • The previous customer was supposed to take the certificates, that deposit certificate, and then it hits me The guy in front of me.

  • I knew him for a few years.

  • He was having his accounts with us.

  • He was having like this, you know, an attitude like unhappy.

  • He was having everything in the list off success, a big house, a big car, a very successful company.

  • He was never enough, you know.

  • He was always eager for more and more and more, and he was never enough.

  • On the other hand, when I saw the my customer, the shepherd, he was staying there in front of the teller, you know, like the people from the countryside there a little bit shy.

  • And but he was very proud.

  • He was holding his little money like this in front of him, and he was having an attitude like a multimillionaire like the king off the world.

  • He was so happy and I was singing these guys, having a few money, working very hard for them.

  • And he's happy.

  • These guys excuse me for money and he's so unhappy.

  • Money don't make you happy.

  • What makes you happy house?

  • After that, I started being very curious.

  • When I was 26 I was running already on agency in a bank.

  • At 27 I was manager in a head office and I knew that in the back off the reports that I was seeing are inside off every line.

  • There are lives, families, destinies and I saw so many disasters due to lack of financial educations.

  • But I'm a saver.

  • My partner is a saver.

  • We were safe, you know, Everything was just for curiosity.

  • You're lonely that we became parents When many of you raise the hand that you have your parents how many our parents are having a small kids around you.

  • Thank you.

  • Quit money.

  • Well, when you have this more miracle in your life and do you realize that you're goingto be responsible for the El Dude, that is goingto be is a shocking moment And I said, How am I going to use all these seem for I gather in all these years to be sure that my kid will be successful and I realized that I need to study march more.

  • But I found some very interesting things that I want to share with you today.

  • So when we are born, we have the brain, the old brain, the reptilian brain functioning.

  • This brain is responsible with survival.

  • This is why I want to give has a need, is shouting I don't have any love that he's hungry.

  • He needs a lot of affection later, the neocortex is developing.

  • The neocortex is the most evolved part off our brain, which is responsible with reading, thinking, talking, analyzing, planning so on so forth.

  • So the kid cannot understand time in the first years of life.

  • He's living here and there, and everything is possible.

  • It's the life.

  • It's a miracle for them.

  • You know, an A t M.

  • It's a printing machine.

  • It's, you know, you just press some buttons there and is giving you money, didn't you, Nutter?

  • Well, ask a kid.

  • You will tell you and Mommy and Daddy they have a magic want, which is a card.

  • They call it car, but it's a magic one, you know.

  • I want toys.

  • I want food.

  • I want books.

  • I want whatever my mom is moving the wand or that my daddy in front of something block.

  • It's appears that and I have everything I want.

  • So this is their level off, understand?

  • They cannot understand the value off money, but they understand the concept of fight off money.

  • Well, the brain has two hemispheres left, one on the right one.

  • The left Brain Hemisphere is responsible with thing with logic science.

  • Mozz Grandma While the right hemisphere of the brain is responsible with creativity, art, feelings, emotions well, by the age of seven, the right brain hemisphere is the working mode for a child.

  • Also, by the age of seven, our money attitude, its form.

  • This is why our relation with money.

  • It's so emotional and so unique for each of us.

  • The roots off money and success are putting our brain.

  • In the 1st 7 years off life as a doctor, Bruce Lipton is proving in the 1st 7 years off life, we are in a stage of him noses where the brain is just capturing data were not filtering them.

  • And the future for us are the people around us.

  • Mama, My father.

  • My mother?

  • Yes, they are telling me what is right.

  • What is wrong, what is good, what is but including related to money.

  • I found some things that are influencing our relation with money during life.

  • One off them is money attitude off the people around.

  • We're not born knowing or being programmed that manure.

  • But money won't make you happy.

  • Money don't grow on trees.

  • You have to work hard for money.

  • So on so forth.

  • If we have this idea in our brain, someone teachers all these things.

  • Another factor that is quite influencing our life for a long time is the environment what we grow.

  • Because there we have the mindset, 80% off the reach.

  • People today are self made.

  • Me owners their first level off millionaires.

  • Well, many off them.

  • They're coming from very poor lives.

  • And to say How is it possible?

  • Why didn't thought You know why I'm poor.

  • My family was poor.

  • I will always be poor because off the mindset and it's enough in a kid's life, Toby one person to believe in the kid in order to push him and to take him into changes mentality another factories money personality you are born with.

  • We are born savers or spenders and you can understand these if you give to a small child amount of money when you go shopping, can there are keys that they buy the first thing that they see or there are these other kids that they come home with the money not buying anything, no matter what they say around in life with financial education, we try toe be somewhere in the middle toe be negligible and important part.

  • Another factor, very important, is financial education, lock on financial education leads, toe disasters and the proof off.

  • These are the lottery winners that begin a lot of money and they lose them all.

  • But they found people that they work for money, like actors, singers.

  • If they have money overnight and they don't have financial education, they're going to lose them all, even if this amount would be enough for five generations to live.

  • So up to seven years old, you are putting the seeds off money and success on your child.

  • How high he will get in life.

  • You put it there.

  • What you're going to teach the kid.

  • Well, first of all, you have to be an example and you'll whatever you teach, you have to show as well.

  • You're going to tell the kids how they're going to gain money and how they're going to spend them wisely.

  • How they're going toe to toe, make them means you have to work and you have to produce value.

  • You don't need to work hard.

  • You need to work smart and to make value for the others.

  • Another for them to give you money.

  • And after that, how to take care of money and how to spend their money.

  • Why does make savings and the power off generosity to put all the story.

  • In fact, I will tell you that I make a personal study when I start financial parenting.

  • I was doing this for parents, teaching them what?

  • To teach their kids further.

  • They said The kid is learning from my example Hoops.

  • This is a problem.

  • I'm Kot with the money or I'm a disaster.

  • Or, you know, I never received financial education.

  • What I'm going to do.

  • So I start trainings for others.

  • Well, I have a training which is quite ah long in time.

  • And people they have to make exercises and I have their home worse.

  • And there is one.

  • Where is I have a question.

  • Why?

  • You don't think that up to now you didn't reach success and I received the following answer.

  • I just pick free for you.

  • I'm not smart enough.

  • I'm not pretty enough.

  • I'm not good enough.

  • I always felt I didn't deserve They sound so normal.

  • But if you know who said these answers, this is quite impressive.

  • I'm not smart enough is John that he's a well known doctor and he's a specialist in what he's doing and he has a high recognition.

  • I said, How is it possible, John, to say something like this about you and digging?

  • We realize that when he was a child in the dinner, the father was always saying, You're so stupid.

  • Shut up, Don't say these things how I make you so stupid And he still believes his stupid is over 45.

  • Now Tonya was saying, I'm not beautiful enough.

  • Well done is no beautiful.

  • She's gorgeous.

  • She's an international photo model.

  • And she was pretty since she was small and her sister older sister was jealous and always was saying, Why people are saying you're so pretty when they put you in a cover of a magazine.

  • Look at you.

  • Your eyes are too close.

  • Your ears are too big.

  • Yes, she still believes she's not beautiful.

  • And the last one mark that said I don't deserve When he was more, he was very smart.

  • He was a finger, a logical mind and everything he was receiving.

  • A toy was broken it into pieces to see what is inside And the mother was saying, You're such a bad kid.

  • You don't deserve any tow.

  • You destroy all of them.

  • I'm never, ever going to buy you toys.

  • I said, Mark, how is it possible to still believe this?

  • But, you know, working with hundreds of people, Mark Bingo, entrepreneur.

  • Having a big company and giving so many salaries.

  • You're the people working for you.

  • They have a roof on the table for the roof above the head, food on the table, and kids in the kindergarten and school because they work for you.

  • You deserve it.

  • All these air coming from the childhood.

  • And after working with so so so many people, I can tell you the opinion that you have all of you on you, All of us on us is lower than it should.

  • And you know why?

  • Because we are occurring with us.

  • This critical voices that we had when we were Children.

  • So my advice for you if you want to have successful kids, is you to be successful, allow yourself to be successful.

  • Let aside off year Let aside the critical voices you have in your in your head and be successful.

  • That kids are going to follow you and money will come.

  • Thank you.

we are all in sick, off happiness and on our way to happiness.

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    林宜悉 に公開 2021 年 01 月 14 日
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