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Butwehavethesefourhappybrainchemicals, right?
Dopamine, oxytocin, serotoninandendorphins.
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Andyetwe A famousstudyshowedthatAmericanstouchitupwardsofoncein a conversationcomparedtoMexicanswhotouchedeachotherupwardsof 180 timeswithconversation.
Sowelivein a deeplylitigiousworldwhereeveryone's afraidtotoucheachother.
I don't knowhowtodoitanymore.
Todaybreaker.
Wehaveconsensualhugs.
Thedooryou'reouremcee, promising.
Howdoyouplead?
A consensual.
Wehavejustanunderstanding.
No, weactuallycouldbe.
We'vehadlongdiscussionsaboutthisfromdifferentcommunitieswhohadsteppedoutwithsexualtrauma, andtheycametomeandtheysaid, Hey, here's how I wanttobehuggedatthedoor A breakerIfyouknowrightnow, whensomeonehugsmeandgoestohugmeandsayNo, thankyouDon't want a hug.