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  • I admit it. I used to be a total guy's girl.


  • I was someone who thought I just get along better with boys.


  • But in reality, I was just terribly intimidated by, and afraid of, WOMEN.


  • I fell into that whole stereotypical thinking that women are drama or too emotional or catty.


  • Blurgh. Social conditioning.


  • But as I've stumbled through my twenties, matured, and learned, and grown and I'm now rapidly approaching 30.

    でも、20 代を生きていくうちに、大人になり、いろんなことを学び、成長し、今は 30 歳に差し掛かっています。

  • I've been looking back and thinking about what's been the most impactful in my life in the last decade.

    最近人生を振り返って、過去 10 年で一番影響力のあったことは何だったか考えていました。

  • If I could go back in time and tell myself anything at 20, what would it be?

    過去に戻り、20 歳の自分に何でも言うことができるとしたら、何と言うでしょう?

  • And without a doubt, I would say, "Yo, female friendships though, you're sleeping on them."


  • And as I take stock of the kinds of women in my life, I have noticed a pattern emerge, the sort of standing pillars of friendship, that each one of my friends sort of fall into.


  • Number one: The Caretaker

    タイプ 1 ; 世話役

  • She's protective, nurturing, and encouraging.


  • She's got a multitude of snacks in her purse whenever you're hungry, will send you out the door with an umbrella or jacket if you forgot one, and leave you feeling loved and taken care of.


  • She's sort of like your mom and your big sister and mother nature rolled into one beautiful package.


  • She's the kind of women who bakes a delicious gluten free muffin in the same day that she retiles her bathroom.


  • Number two: The Fun-time Friend

    タイプ 2 : 楽しい友達

  • She's a wild card, but isn't that the best card in Uno!

    彼女はワイルドだけど、それって UNO では一番いいカードじゃない?(UNO の特殊カードが Wild なことから)

  • She can out drink you, make you laugh until you pee a little, and has a million events that you can be her plus one to.


  • She's especially essential immediately post-breakup and will make sure that you have ample thirst traps to make your ex regret their decision.

    彼女は特にあなたが交際相手と別れた直後では大事な存在で、元恋人の決断を後悔させるために注意を引くような写真を必ず SNS 上にたくさん載せるように言います。

  • She makes you feel like it's both of you versus the world, and you pity the world because they're hella outnumbered.


  • Three: The Independent Woman

    タイプ 3 : 自立した女性

  • She's driven, inspiring, and has her life together, but makes your mess of life feel like it's a glorious work in progress.


  • She's the one you call when you have no idea how to find out where your towed car is, or when you need advice on how to find a good tax person.


  • She's probably not that much older than you, maybe she's even younger than you.


  • But her emotional maturity is through the roof and you definitely view her as your mentor sometimes.


  • She's confident, has a solid sense of self worth, and everything about her is what you wanna be when you grow up.


  • Four: The One-on-one Friend

    タイプ 4 : 一対一の友達

  • She may be more introverted, so you mostly hang out one-on-one bonding over tea and good conversation.


  • You may discuss anything from books you've been reading to the deep-seated traumas you're uncovering in therapy.


  • But either way, you usually hang out for hours on end and leave your time with her feeling connected, seen and excited to talk again.


  • She's normally incredibly compassionate, deep-feeling, and thoughtful.


  • And you value her objective perspective on so many different issues.


  • And finally, five: The Toxic Friend. Not all female friends are great.

    最後に、タイプ 5 : 悪影響な友達。女友達は皆が良いわけではありません。

  • In fact you may have a few toxic friends in your circle, from frenemies to negative nancies, we all have that friend that we're not entirely sure we should even be friends with.


  • I mean maybe every time you see each other she talks for two hours before asking you a question about yourself.

    彼女と会ったときは彼女は 2 時間もずっと話し続け、それからやっとあなたのことについて尋ねたり、

  • Maybe she's emotionally draining, puts you down as a joke, or reaches out only when she wants something from you.


  • Either way, you usually have something to learn from this kind of friend, whether it's how to set strong boundaries, speaking up for yourself, or just learning what type of people you don't want in your life.


  • There you have it.


  • The five types of female friends I've noticed circulate in and out of my life over the last ten years.

    この 10 年間で私の人生の中に入り、また去って行った 5 つのタイプの女友達でした。

  • And if I had to guess which one I was, I would probably say The One-on-one Friend.


  • Though I have definitely been The Fun-time Friend when I was a teenager; and on occasion, The Toxic One, which sucks but sometimes you are.


  • What about you? Let me know in the comments below, and do not forget to share this with that special friend in your life or The Toxic One.


  • Uh yeah, actually, if a friend randomly sent this to you, you're probably toxic, sorry!


  • I am Anna Akana and thank you to Audible for sponsoring today's video.

    私はアナ・アカナ、今日の動画は Audible にスポンサーしていただきました。

  • Listening makes us smarter, more connected people and there's no better place to listen than audible.

    聞くことで賢くなるし、人ともっと繋がる。audible より良いところはありません。

  • Audible members choose three titles every month, one audio book plus two Audible Originals that you can't hear anywhere else.

    Audible 会員は毎月 3 つのタイトルを選びます。オーディオブック 1 つと他では聞くことができない Audible Originals 2 つです。

  • Just go to or text "Anna" to 500-500 and browse their unmatched selection of audio content. に行くか、電話番号 500-500 に「Anna」とメッセージを送って、他では聞くことのできないオーディオコンテンツのセレクションをチェックしてみてください。

  • I recently listened to the book "Text Me When You Get Home".

    私は最近『Text Me When You Get Home』のオーディオブックを聞きました。

  • It was such an informative read about the way that modern female friendships have evolved in both cinema representation and in the life of the author Kayleen.


  • As someone who was also once threatened by the idea of a woman and greatly intimidated by flocks of them, I found it to be really relatable in all the ways that I used to reject being a girl's girl because I was stupid.


  • Start listening with a 30-day free trial and your first audio book plus two Audible Originals are free when you go to, or text "anna" to 500-500. に行くか、電話番号 500-500 に「Anna」とメッセージを送って、30 日の無料お試しでオーディオブック 1 つと Audible Originals が 2 つを無料で聞きましょう。

I admit it. I used to be a total guy's girl.


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こんな時に頼れる!女友達を作るべき理由!(5 Types of Female Friendships)

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    Courtney Shih   に公開 2019 年 09 月 04 日