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Hi this is Tutor Nick P and this is Proverbs 114. The proverb today is it
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takes two to make a quarrel. Okay. Let's take a look at the note here. If someone
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says it takes two to make a quarrel, it means that a quarrel is never just one
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person's fault or is never just ... or there's never just one person involved.
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So there's always two. If one of the two refuses to participate. It only takes one
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to refuse. If one of the two refuses to participate in an argument there can be
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no argument. Nobody's going to stand there and argue with themselves. So it takes ...
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That's what we mean, but it takes two to make an argument. Okay. So let's take a look
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at some examples here. Example number one. Don't let yourself get trapped in a
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quarrel on the Internet, especially on the Internet like if somebody didn't
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like something you posted or or you wrote or your said or something like
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that. And they make some comments, especially somebody if if they're
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anonymous. People that are anonymous they're braver because they're not
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facing you directly. So, so and then of course if we get into an argument you'll
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probably have a lot of back and forth, back and forth back forth . It's probably
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not worth it. So that's what they're saying here. So don't let yourself get
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trapped into a quarrel on the Internet it will just anger you and waste your
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time and energy. It is very unlikely you can convince the other person of your
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opinion. It is best to simply not respond. Remember it takes two to make a quarrel.
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All right. That's the way we use it. Okay let's look at number two. Number two here.
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We have an a/b . So A says don't argue with her. Just ignore what she says. And
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then B says" hey I tried to do that she is the one who always starts don't
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blame me. " You know don't point the finger that I'm
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doing something wrong. You need to blame her as well. You know it takes two to
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make an argument. So don't don't make it look like it's more my fault. Okay.
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Anyway it's just the way you might hear it. I hope you got it. I hope it's clear.
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Thank you for your time. Bye-bye.