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Hi this is Tutor Nick P and this is Lesson 310. The title of today's lesson
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is the difference between to friend, befriend, and make friends. So we're
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looking at friend as a verb. We're not looking at friend as a noun. Everybody
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knows that. That's simple but we're looking at all three as verbs. Okay. Let's
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take a look at the note here. To friend as a verb, to mean to make friends
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is a very old use that is rarely used now. So usually we say that we make
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friends with someone. We don't usually say I friended someone yesterday. That's
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that sounds awkward. It sounds weird. We don't usually hear that. However to
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friend as a verb has adopted a new meaning with the advent of the Internet.
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With the beginning of the Internet, we now use to friend to mean to be added as
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a friend on a social media website or somebody's page, especially Facebook.
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So that's the most common you know. You could say that you know, you friended
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someone meaning you added them to your Facebook page as a friend. You could do
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that, but we don't usually say to friend somebody like in real life. If we meet
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them and you become friends but on social websites, we do use it. And in the
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same sense, you can also say to unfriend. Like if you had somebody as a friend
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on one of your social websites and I don't know maybe they made you angry or
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whatever the situation was you don't want them as a friend anymore, you could
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unfriend them just as easily on the social website. Okay. Let's continue.
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Befriend has a more formal use. So befriend really does mean make friends.
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It is but it's used in a different way. It means more like to adopt someone as a
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friend and treat him in a friendly way, especially, these are the points you
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should pay attention to, especially someone who is lonely, far from home, or
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needs help. So usually the person who's giving help or helping out the person or
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training the person or kind of adopting the
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person as a friend, they're the one that befriends that person. We don't usually
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go both ways with it. Okay. So yes, in a friendly way means ...
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usually it is an older person or a person with more authority or
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someone who can give help, help is to the person befriends the other one. Just
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like what I said. All right. Let's continue. To make friends is the most
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common way we express meeting someone and becoming their friend. So usually
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when you meet a person and the two of you hit it off. You like each other.
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You know, you know, of course just in a regular way and it doesn't have to be
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romantic. It just means that you made friends. Both people make friends with
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each other. Yeah. So it's kind of on a very much on a mutual or even basis. When
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you befriend someone, it's usually the person that's kind of helping out or
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aiding the other person is the one that we say befriend. Actually befriend I
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think in British English can also have the meaning of to aid or to help as well.
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Okay. So let's just look at some examples here. Example number one. I friended him
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on my Facebook page. So only on the social media do we usually use friend
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that way. That you added their name as a friend on this media. After we broke up, I
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unfriended her from Facebook. So again well I just like I said you could use
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unfriend in the same sense. Number three. When I first came to this company
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I was befriended by a senior employee who showed me the ropes. Yeah. This
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kind of covers almost all of them. As somebody who's older. Somebody more in
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authority. Somebody more experienced, kind of help them out. You know, showed them the
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way. Then in that sense kind of befriended that person. So again, usually somebody
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that the one that's making friends that's helping out somebody is the one
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that befriends. And the last one of course you know, I made friends with one
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of my classmates on my first day at that school. So yeah. That's
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the most common way. So just think of make friends for almost everything else.
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Okay. Anyway, I hope you got it. I hope it's
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clear. Thank you for your time. Bye-bye.