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when you have this like fear that's
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removed from you... you can honestly do
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anything in the world and it's the
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greatest gift anyone can have I was
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afraid I was anxious i was nervous
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around people around social situations
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and that is just completely gone
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Music playing by Ashon "Midnight Children"
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Music playing by Ashon "Midnight Children"
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Music playing by Ashon "Midnight Children"
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Music playing by Ashon "Midnight Children"
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I'm going to get hit in the head!
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with a giant snowball from that tree
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alright guys I made it two years
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no porn no masturbation and i just want
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to share the benefits and my experience
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after two years now i basically just
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hauled a$$ and hiked for like five
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days to come out here to share an
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inspirational video with you my brown
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little ears are freezing right now and I
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i kinda wanted to Mission out here just
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to kinda share that like the journey is
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definitely not easy but it is so worth
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it and that is my biggest takeaway in
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year two of no porn no masturbation it
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is so worth the journey
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there's going to be tons of pitfalls
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tons of hard times and it isn't easy but
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at the end of the journey you have
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nothing but beauty and i don't know i
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just thought it'd to be a cool spot to film so
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what are some of the biggest
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benefits if you haven't already check
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out my first video I film a year ago and
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in that video I talked about the
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craziest benefits i had experienced to
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go watch that video i put it in the
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links below if you haven't seen it watch
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it is inspirational it's motivational
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help so many guys start the journey my
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face is numb give me a second i'll rub
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my face
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ok ok it's ok so obstacles it's there
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are going to be so many obstacles in
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life not just for quitting porn but
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everything is an obstacle anything that
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you want to do in life is not a smooth
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ride it's not it's not like sailing
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smooth seas you know one of my favorite
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quotes a smooth sea never made a skilled
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sailors so start to really you know
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embrace the struggle and like embrace
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the fact it's going to be hard
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honestly here's the here's the benefits
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i have absolutely zero desire and
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zero want to masterbate masterbating
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doesn't even register my brain anymore
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like I forgotten what it's like porn i
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have absolutely zero interest in porn
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and to be honest with you
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one of the big changes i've noticed is i
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can now look at Instagram pictures of
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sexy women and not have it trigger me or
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want more like I can literally just look
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at something and just appreciate it for
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the beauty i can connect with women and
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be friends with them now which is a
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huge benefit that I never had before
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there was always some sort of an agenda
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or some sort of sexual kind of
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connotation to the relationship but
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right now I could truly say i have
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friendship with girls that are purely
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just friendships and that is something
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that I value and appreciate so much one of
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the other huge benefits is my
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increased sociability I honestly feel so
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comfortable in social situations
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I am NOT that guy at the gym that's got
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his head down his earphones on its kind
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of doing my own thing that that's a sign
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of like being antisocial honestly I will
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just talk to anyone and i have no
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problem talking to people anymore i can
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literally walk in front of a stage of a
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thousand people and have zero fear and
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give zero care about what their opinion
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of me is so that's gone like I don't
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care what people think and I'm so
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grateful for that it's in a sense...
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courage and when you have courage you
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know anything is possible and whatever
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it is business family life adventure I
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have zero anxiety 0 depression
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yeah I still go through like crappy moods
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but it doesn't like bog me down and
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destroy me so i can connect with anyone
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now I can just jump into any situation
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be happy be fun and I have tons of stuff
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to talk about
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and you know what if you know we took
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the conversation runs dry I just tell
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them that you know i just go right up to them
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and i'm like "HEY"
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i quit porn for two years now right and it
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just starts some cool conversations so
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confidence is huge that's the biggest
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takeaway that I realized after year two
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now i should also say that in here two
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I also notice a kind of like just
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overall what I feel good
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an overall sense of well-being is what I
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feel I don't have any extreme spikes of
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emotions up and down i just love life
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all the time you know i'm happy i
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embrace adventure I embrace my
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creativity and I'm just happy all the
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way around it's very neutral in the
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first year it was like Superman right
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and I just felt like I could take on
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anything and now i'm just chill
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I'm just okay I'm not much i'm not down
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I'm not extremely up I'm just normal i
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don't feel that extreme super like
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almost like the superpowers that we
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talked about
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I don't really feel that as much anymore
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I just feel great all the time so that's
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good
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well sorry my lens lens going crazy i
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don't know what's going on but I hope
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that's better anyway so i just wanted to
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give you guys a quick wrap-up of year to
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it's getting really crazy in here and I
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might need to like get the heck out but
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i just want to show you this waterfall
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and this waterfall to me is kind of like
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a metaphor of habit and you know what
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happens is you get the the frozen state
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i'm just making this up as I go like I
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don't really know I never thought this
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through but I think like when you when
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you do something over and over again
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it freezes in your brain that pathway
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that habit that routine it really
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becomes hard and frozen because it's
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like the same thing but with practice
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and effort and really keeping at it and
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and and go trying over and over again
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whether you fail a hundred times it
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doesn't matter to get up a hundred and
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one times that's what matters
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and when you do that the ice starts to
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thaw and it starts to break and you
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start to get the flow of what i would
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call life and just feeling good and I
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promise you if you're thinking about
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quitting like just do it
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give yourself a one-day a three-day goal
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give yourself a seven-day goal and just
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try your best and it's gonna suck it's
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going to be hard
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everything in life is
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but keep at it and I promise you over
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time it gets easier
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I'm serious like you forget the old way
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it goes away over time to just keep at
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it right if you need any help if you
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want to coach there's tons of
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accountability coaches out there check
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out the app coach.me I'm a coach on
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there i'm happy to work with you
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link is below you know keep at it it
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sometimes helps to have a person that
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keeps you accountable who kind of gives
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you advice and inspiration
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I'm happy to do that with anyone that
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needs help hop on over to the coach.me
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app through the link below
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I think you can get a week coaching free
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and then after that it's like 15 bucks
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I don't know you don't need to check the
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link i don't know what the I don't set
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the prices but that's an option try it
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out for you if the free versions
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available just hang out and chat with me
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send me an e-mail leave a comment below
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honestly i'm here to help anyone that's
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struggling with this I know how
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difficult it can be but trust me there
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is freedom at the other end
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now i want to leave you with the one big
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greatest tip that i have discovered
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after two years of doing this and that
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tip is that you need to discover a way
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to deal with stress that doesn't come
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from porn doesn't come from masturbation
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alright that is my biggest secret that
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is my biggest takeaway that I have
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learned it's all about stress you know
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the micro stress that just creeps in out
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of nowhere like you don't get enough
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sleep you don't get eight hours you
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don't get seven hours you only get five
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hours of sleep that actually affect
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stress levels in your body which makes
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it so hard to quit the habit so fight
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stress you know eat healthy
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take care of your physical needs work
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out what ever get outside get stimulated
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stimulate your brain and just take care
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of the stress do some research on how
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you can cope with stress because it
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subtly affect you you know financially
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health-wise sleep-wise there's so many
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domains that can affect you and maybe
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i'll talk about it that you want to
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learn more about that just leave a
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comment below and I'll do a special
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video just about how to deal with stress
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because that is the key that is the
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secret
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how I made it two years was just finding
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alternative ways to deal with stress
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alternative routines and all sorts of
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different things i'm getting soaking wet
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the cameras getting soaking wet but i
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really wanted to film this video for you
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guys and just share and give people
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inspiration if one person tries to quit
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for seven days
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this whole journey would have been worth
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it ah honestly I would have done the
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journey anyway I am all about fun and
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excitement when you quit when you quit
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something you fill it with something
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else right and this is you know
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something that is has been on my mind to
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do is to just get out and have more
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adventures and you know what I just want
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to tell you guys to keep at it
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do not give up it's a lifelong journey
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and I promise you it is so worth it hit
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me up leave a comment lets chat more ok i'm
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outta here (music outro)
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Music Playing "Midnight Children" by Ashon
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I'm freezing, i'm cold....