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  • Our aim is to make psychology

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  • Attractiveness is defined as certain qualities or features

  • that make a person more desirable and alluring to others.

  • It can significantly influence people's attitudes

  • and it's one of the most common reasons

  • people become interested in psychology.

  • What is it exactly that makes someone so attractive?

  • Which of these traits do we look for in a friend or partner?

  • According to psychology,

  • here are eight of the most common things

  • that make a person attractive.

  • Number one, confidence.

  • Studies have shown that confidence

  • is the most attractive quality a person can have.

  • When someone is confident,

  • you're less likely to second-guess yourself,

  • and you know and believe in your value.

  • People notice when someone is confident in who they are

  • and what they believe in.

  • And although it's common to imagine someone

  • who is confident as outgoing and charismatic,

  • confidence can also be quiet.

  • Knowing your worth, believing in your strengths,

  • and taking pride in who you are is what makes you confident,

  • regardless of if you're outgoing or not.

  • Two, availability.

  • Availability is an important factor

  • in how much we find someone attractive.

  • Despite the common belief that we need to act distant

  • or aloof to make people we like interested in us,

  • the opposite is actually true.

  • When we're developing new relationships,

  • it's important to find someone who can physically

  • and emotionally be there for us.

  • And the more responsive, attentive and reliable someone is,

  • the more we will come to value our relationship with them.

  • Three, uniqueness.

  • Although there are 7 billion people in the world,

  • each of us is unique in our own ways.

  • No one looks, talks, act, thinks,

  • or feels in exactly the same way,

  • and that's what makes us so amazing.

  • But some people prefer to hide their uniqueness to fit in.

  • When you learn to embrace what makes us special,

  • whether it's our looks, experiences,

  • ideas, or little quirks,

  • we open ourselves up to the possibility of meeting new,

  • engaging, and like-minded people.

  • Number four, kindness.

  • Kindness is a quality that lots of people want

  • in a friend or romantic partner.

  • In a study done by Baskerville and colleagues

  • in the year 2000,

  • they found that people tend to like people

  • who showed more kindness, sympathy, and compassion

  • than those who showed lesser levels of kindness.

  • At the end of the day,

  • we all wanna be with someone

  • who treats us as well as we would like to be treated.

  • Five, intelligence.

  • Intelligence is attractive because it often leads

  • to stimulating conversations, deep insights,

  • and a new way to look at the world.

  • A recent study in 2018

  • by psychologists Gignac and others found

  • that for most participants,

  • there is a particular IQ score

  • that maximizes an individual's attractiveness

  • but any higher would make them seem less desirable.

  • In other words, people are attracted to those they perceive

  • as more intelligent than them,

  • but not so much that they become too intimidating

  • or out of reach to talk to.

  • Six, passion.

  • Next is passion, the enthusiasm and desire

  • to achieve a certain goal.

  • People who are passionate tend to be driven, determined,

  • and self-motivated, but more importantly,

  • they have things that matter a lot to them

  • and that they care about significantly.

  • They have an interest and big dreams

  • that appeal to the optimist in all of us,

  • which can inspire us to push ourselves to be better as well.

  • Seven, a sense of humor.

  • Research has shown that we tend to be more attracted

  • to the people who make us laugh,

  • possibly because it shows cleverness, wit, and creativity.

  • So it should come as no surprise

  • that having a good sense of humor ranks high

  • on the list of characters people look for

  • in an ideal friend or partner.

  • In heterosexual relationships, women in particular,

  • gravitate towards men they find funny

  • while men favor women who are playful and good-humored.

  • And number eight, their demeanor.

  • Last but not least is our demeanor.

  • While it's no secret that a person's looks have a lot to do

  • with how attractive we find them,

  • there's a lot more to it than someone's physical traits.

  • Psychologists have found that it takes us only 30 seconds

  • to decide whether we find someone attractive

  • and our demeanor can make

  • or break someone's impression of us.

  • The way we dress, act, and carry ourselves also plays a part

  • in how people perceive us.

  • When meeting new people,

  • it can be helpful to take note of these things

  • as they can make a world of a difference.

  • While it's common for us to base the attractiveness

  • off a person's physical traits,

  • attractiveness can actually be more complex than that.

  • And though we all have different ideas

  • of what makes someone more or less attractive,

  • these are some of the most common

  • and widely agreed upon traits.

  • So, do you agree with the things we've mentioned

  • in this video?

  • Do you also find these traits and qualities attractive?

  • Leave us a comment down below.

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  • For similar topics, you can watch more in our videos

  • 7 Psychological Things That Can Make Us Less Attractive.

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